We all face hardships and moments of stress, fear and failure. During these tough moments in your life, you should take the opportunity to practice resilience. Like all skills in life, the more you practice it, the more natural it will become.
Here are a couple of traits Iβve noticed that all resilient people have in common.
Have perspective
In the heat of the moment, it is easy to blow up your situation and make it a bigger deal than what is really is. If you freak out, then it will be very hard to maintain composure let alone bounce back. Take a deep breath, calm down and then try to look at the situation with perspective. Ask yourself, will this affect me in a day, week, month, etc, it will really help you gain perspective.
Laugh about it
Having a good sense of humor in a shitty situation can really loosen things up! Life is made up of many learning lessons, and if you can have fun while learning, you are one step closer to bouncing back faster.
Have courage
It can be easy to avoid a situation after making a bad mistake. Find courage in yourself to get up and push through your fear. Once you get past it, you will feel empowered that you did it!
Learn from it
Like I said earlier, life is just full of lessons. The only way to truly bounce back and move forward with your life is to find the meaning and lesson learned. It is important to constantly challenge yourself to grow, so you can improve and adapt.
love,
Karen
great post, very genuine!!!
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thank you! Glad you enjoyed it.
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very beautifilll pic and very good smile my friend.. :)
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Perspective is one of those things that many people have trouble with. It is a foreign concept to think outside of themselves and see their place in the world.
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yes... like an out of body experience :P It is hard to step back when you are living in it everyday.
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Really motivating post dear @karensuestudios ! π
Thank you so much for sharing here !!
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np! Thanks for stopping by! :)
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np! Thanks for stopping by! :)
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You are welcome !
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Well, I wish I could be so much on point with words. I just wrote a 3000 word essay regarding my relationship experience and didn't cover even 1/8th of what I wanted to say. Hopefully, practice will make perfect. Meanwhile, kudos to you, Karen.
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aww thank you! :) hahaha lots to write about always.... that's the awesome thing about Steemit, you can share it all here.
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good story friend, I wish you always success ....
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thank you!
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I often think about the things the goals I have accomplished, which cheers me up somehow and gives me more fire to go on.
Never Give Up! The most valuable things to us, never come easy!
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awww I love this! Keep on going! :) Thanks for stopping by to read my thinker friend! :)
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Really learnt a lot
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glad you did! :)
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You young lady , you are so smart about life, it took me fifty two years to get there I salute you!β€οΈ
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aww I'm always learning and growing! I just share what I know :)
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I love your photos... Again! LOl!
Those are great tips though. Life can let tear us apart if we let it!
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awww thank you! :) You are so sweet.
yup chin up! always!
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When bad experiences happen, we have a clear choice. . .become bitter, or become better.
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