A quick post about LOVE - again...

in love •  7 years ago 

I know -yet another love post. Promise to stop soon haha...

I just feel inspired lately, since it's one of the things constantly in my mind...
I am going to share here a quote of Ted Mosby, the main hero of the American TV series How I Met your Mother - a series I liked [even though it does copy Friends a bit...] but realized after watching it several times, that it's always sad... Romantic... but bittersweet...

For Robin
"Actually there is a word for that. It's
'love'. If you're looking for a word that means caring for someone beyond all
rationality and wanting them to have anything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it's love. And when you love someone you just...you don't stop EVER. Even when people roll their eyes or call you crazy. Even then. Especially then! You just...you don't give up! Because if I could give up...if I could just take the whole world's advice and move on and find somebody else, it wouldn't be love. That would be some other disposable thing that is not worth fighting for.But that is not what this is."

One of the few times I'm speechless ... nothing to add ... couldn't be more ok with everything in this paragraph. Agreed 100%...

Then again I saw this the other day on 9gag and I realized how small we might be and get upset for NOTHING:


And this is how we should respond to problems (especially love problems -or problematic lovers-):

Dr House meme - my favorite!- from Google search

I am wishing you all an amazing weekend and as I always say, whatever happens, don't forget to smile!

Yours

MeanMommy

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spot on... I like this from Song of Songs 8:
"Set me as a seal upon your heart,
As a seal upon your arm;
For love is as strong as death,
Jealousy as cruel as the grave;
Its flames are flames of fire,
A most vehement flame.
Many waters cannot quench love,
Nor can the floods drown it.
If a man would give for love
All the wealth of his house,
It would be utterly despised."
I'm interested in your take on this? thanks
https://steemit.com/life/@cryptosphere/path-to-world-peace-man-and-woman-lion-and-lamb-fire-and-water-protestant-and-catholic-masons-and-monks

That is beautiful ;)
Sceptical about the post though - having a bachelor's and a master's in Theology I always am when it comes to biblical issues, especially when my master's thesis was on Lilith - the 'first wife of Adam' ;)

I would LOVE to read your thesis! I have a theory that the Biblical account is written by Adam and his descendants which are still sleeping, as it says God put Adam in a deep sleep but never mentions that Adam actually woke up. In that case, he may have forgotten the name and identity of his female partner and misconstrued the account of what actually happened between them in the beginning. Fascinating! Thanks. Please share your work if you don't mind.

Eventually I might share it on a post ;)
Don't buy this whole Adam story though haha!!! I haven't researched enough for it though, so I gotta study ;)))
I think an awesome 'religious' relation beautifully started here on Steemit :D Thanks!

you are right about love @meanmommy33! Love encompasses a variety of different emotional and mental states, typically strongly and positively experienced, ranging from the deepest interpersonal affection to the simplest pleasure.

Too deep, but true yes! :)

Oh... I miss both those shows! Himym and House!

And to your post, it makes me think of the slightly cheesy, but accurate quote "It's better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all."

Hugs to you <3

Me too!!! Even though, about himym I realized that even though it's supposed to be 'fun', just like Friends, most of the times it ends up being sad...
House .....no one can top House! :D <3
YES - cheesy but I do believe in that !!!!
See you SOON giiiirl !!!! :* :* :*

See you soooon <3

One of my most fav authors has a book exploring how to make love stay with humor. The main character is also a beautiful redhead like you, here are a few quotes from Tom Robbins, still life with woodpecker.

“Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.”

“When two people meet and fall in love, there's a sudden rush of magic. Magic is just naturally present then. We tend to feed on that gratuitous magic without striving to make any more. One day we wake up and find that the magic is gone. We hustle to get it back, but by then it's usually too late, we've used it up. What we have to do is work like hell at making additional magic right from the start. It's hard work, but if we can remember to do it, we greatly improve our chances of making love stay.”

I hope you have an amazing day, lovley :)

woohoo I was just been called 'beautiful redhead' :D :D :D :D Thankssss <3

ULTIMATE OUTLAW - it IS isn't it????

You know what's the thing though...that magic, with that special someone, is still there damn it, after almost 3 years - once in a lifetime this feeling for me, and still don't get it. I usually get bored at around 3 months - ok let's say 6, TOPS... As long as the magic is still there, it's never too late - I guess.....

Thank you beautiful - and sorry for the late response ;))) :*

:) Sweet!

hehe thank you!

I miei complimenti!!!

grazieee :)))

Lol!!! Sigh, it's all true isn't it?!!

It SO is !!!!! :D

I believe that love is powerful, but in my case I would not call love something that destroy me. Even if you wish your very best to others, love for yourself should always be in background. And with this I am saying to be ready to admit that is hard to let go :) Because if you love you a lot you will be able to share the full you to others. Hugs <3

That is SO true. And I started loving myself lately so that might work well with my love to others now ;)
Oh...letting go...we'll talk A LOT when I get there :P
Big kiss abia asteeeeept !!!! <3

ehehe :) is a very fun post. thank you. Have a nice day. You are so cute! hug

haha thanks girl !!!! :D You too, hugs!!! :*

Himym will always be my old time favourite sitcom! 😍

For me it'll always be Friends - but Himym still a favorite for sure ;)

Really? I haven't watch friends yet. Maybe after i satisfy watching himym again and again, then i can watch friends😂btw,nice to know u. So glad to know a person who have same favourite sitcom with me.

Oh my God YOU SHOULD !!!!! :D
And to be fair....millions of people out there like himym ;)))

Yes i will watch friends hehe😊btw himym really2 affecting my love life though, thats why i can't move on with that😂😂