If he does these 4 things, he is not MR.RIGHT

in love •  7 years ago  (edited)

I know you are tired of kissing frogs in the quest to find Prince Charming. I am with you, Girl.
Here's a few things you might want to check to see if he's Mr.Right or just Mr. Right now:

1.) He may not be a hater, but he's not a supporter either.

  • Okay, don't get me wrong on this. Most of us just wants to have someone who'll be happy with what we have and what we can offer. Yes, I agree with you but isn't it nice to have someone who will push you to become a better version of yourself and support you all the way? Now, that's what separates MR. RIGHT from MR.RIGHT NOW.

2.) Pleasing you in bed isn't a priority on his list.

  • Yes, it does matter. Believe it or not, you deserve someone who is down to make you happy in every aspect of the relationship, may it be emotionally,physically and yes, SEXUALLY. As a woman, one of main roles is to make our man happy. Just think about it, we are willing to do everything to do that, so why can't he?

3.) He has face value, but is that all that matters?

  • Yes, he is undeniably gorgeous, but looks and swag can't pay bills. You can't use his face to pay for the bills and other utilities(Unless he's a celebrity). A man (Note: Man, not boy) should turn you on, not just physically but can also stimulate your mind. Eventually you'll get bored. Look for someone with substance, and more than just a pretty face.

4.) Without TRUST, why are you even in a relationship?
This is a non-negotiable factor. Without trust, there is no respect.
Without respect, there's no relationship. May it be small or big things, it won't work out without trust.
You can't build a future with someone who does not trust you.

Life is short, and the last thing you want to do is be stuck with someone who loves you half-heartedly.
Learn from past mistake and be wiser when it comes to choosing someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with.

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