Anyone that knows me understands that I value the foundation of feminism, equal rights, and equal treatment among genders. In my mind regarding dating, you shouldn't expect a man to do what a woman wouldn't reasonably do, and vice versa. This can make some acts of chivalry seem like strange archaic ground.
However, I was walking in a park and having a discussion with a man as we entered the sidewalk near the street. He stopped mid-conversation and passed in front of me, stating, "Hold on, let me walk on this side."
My first reaction was wow, what century is this? My second reaction was, that's freaking adorable, I'll keep you around. I never knew where this custom originated but I knew the general understanding was that the guy was putting himself in harm's way should any danger arise from the street. To my surprise, the meaning was far more valiant.
"When a man escorts his partner, tradition has it that he offers his left arm.This tradition originates from medieval times when men escorted women around town and through the fields. Should a threat arise or the woman’s honor require defending, the man’s sword hand (his right hand) would be free, giving him quick and easy access to his sword ... Today, when escorting a women outdoors, you should position yourself on the outside (closest to the street) to protect her from traffic, mud splashing, etc." -Primer Magazine
What do you think? Is this old custom cute or weird?
