Heartache after marriage should be avoided, that is a check to see whether you're compatible with your partner

in love •  7 years ago 

Recently, I discovered that some spouse were not really happy with themselves. I stand to find out what may bring the disorder in their relationship with their families. I find out at the starting of their relationship there are lot of promises made to each other which were not fulfill again.

please what can cause heartache after marriage. The scenario I found was that love seems to covers people face not to see or think in a normal direction. This may sound proverbial to the reader but what am pointing at is that a lot people risk what it takes them 5 month to mourn over and forget the emotional aspect of it for the lifetime heartache.

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The point is that people run from heartbroken to life ache, due to love which will disappeared after the marriage. The point am stressing on is that People should endeavour to do the needful before engaged to someone. The general believed of the public was when the need of being a family arise, their views and perceptive is to pray and when that is done. Once the pastor said they are good to good.

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That is all, all other investigation are useless to them, but there is one important check that are needful to be check which is genotype of the pair group whether they are compatible. some many people have neglected, some did it and they were told not to forge ahead with the relationship with the risk of the genotype not matched. Some went ahead with one mind of their parents doesn't conducted such test, or due to the love which cover their face.

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But sincerely, I must tell you that custom, norms are quite different from spiritual means and medical line. this is an advice to the public and to those who may play ignorance of not knowing what genotype can play on relationships, but ask those who have fall in victim of not conducting the test before their marriage. Am sure they will be able to tell you the challenges they have been facing and passIng through to have sickle cell child among their children. Please be wise and is better to take 5month to suffer heartbroken than heartache after marriage.

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