In marriages, individuals should learn to never attack stereotype to acts done in the union, since it has always been two people bonding, they should face the duo when issues arise and not one (especially not the female)
Chidiebere Nwokedi (CANP) gives his notion on this in 'MARRIAGE - stereotypical advice'.
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