Not to get into celebrity gossip too much but basically WWE star John Cena asked his girlfriend, Nikki Bella to sign a 75-page cohabitation agreement before she moved in with him. I say ASKED because some articles I'm seeing say "MADE her sign." He didn't make her do anything. He laid the terms out and if she wasn't going to agree then she wasn't going to move in with him. The agreement referred to her as his "guest."

Let me give you a taste of part of the agreement.

“Although I do not wish to be formal, I do not want there to be any misunderstanding regarding your presence at the home as my guest,” he wrote. “In the event that I ask you to vacate the home, you agree to immediately vacate the home and remove any and all items you have brought into the home as soon as possible. ”

You can get more information about the break up here.

http://people.com/tv/john-cena-nikki-bella-contract/

My Thoughts

It seems like a lot of this boiled down to the fact that John Cena is supporting a lot of his family and he can't take the chance that a gold digger could snag a good chunk of that away from him.

Ladies you have to worry about professional man babies as well so don't think this is just geared one way.

When my parents got married they were 20 and were high school sweet hearts and came from similar economic situations. Ultimately they followed very similar career paths so it was like they were starting at the same point and growing together. Still the marriage wasn't perfect but at least they were at the same starting point.

These days people are meeting each other with such different levels of debt, income potential, and emotional baggage.

Just realize that even if you meet someone who is a high net worth earning like a doctor that they likely have hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt. Then usually what I see is that instead of making payments on a Chevy or Ford they make payments on a BMW or Audi. Instead of making payments on a 1600 sq. ft. house they are making payments on a 3,000 sq. ft. house. Essentially they might be just broke on a different level.

I hate to say it but money situations can really mess up relationships and some people get into relationships to enrich themselves. I once heard someone say that everyone is using everyone else for something. I thought that was a weird way to phrase it but they were even acting like if it is just for good conversation and company that in a way that is what you are being used for.

Story Time STEEMians!!!

I have a friend who is on the sheriffs department in Northern Indiana and he said he responded to a call where a guy was saying this chick was tearing his house to pieces and going crazy. Basically what happened was that that they had been dating for a month and a half or so and her lease was up and everything seemed cool so the guy said she could just move in. Then she went stage 9 psycho on his ass and started smashing holes in the walls and tearing the doors off all the kitchen cabinets. My friend on the Sheriffs department had to ask if she was getting her mail at that location. The guy said, "Yeah, I mean she has her credit card bills coming here and stuff." My friend on the Sheriffs department had to inform him that with Indiana law it is just as much her place to live as it is his even though he owns the house. He couldn't just take her stuff and dump it out on the porch or anything like that according to the law. I guess he should have had at least an 89-page cohabitation agreement with that psycho girl.

Conclusion

It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. Look for the clues along the way. If he / she passes all the gold digger / man baby tests then you might want to still put things in detailed writing encase things don't work out which statistically it isn't looking very good. Places like California have a 60% divorce rate. I can't fault John Cena for having the 75 Page agreement. My only question is was it size 10 font and single spaced?

Have you guys and girls ever had a 75 Page cohabitation agreement?

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