Toxic behavior is toxic, and shouldn’t pull down the good that real masculinity and femininity provide.
People who try to always lump the two arenas together (masculinity/femininity and toxic) are usually intellectually lazy.
People who only talk down on masculinity or only talk down femininity aren’t worth taking the time to listen to imo.
If a person can’t point out how masculinity and femininity help society, then that person is most likely a dullard.
Men who don't know how to be men, and don't. live within the understanding of what it means to be a good, masculine man are the ones who are likely to lash out