A man so proud to hurt a woman he claims to love. Well, he said he paid a price for her vagina so she is simply a purchased commodity that can be emotionally abused. Her duty is to pray for her husband as a virtuous woman and say no word or dare to complain if he cheats. God forbid I be such a virtuous woman.
I tell you there are many women who agree with him. A friend's sister-in-law scolded her for daring to confront her husband after she caught him cheating. ona imaro na obu nwoke and na umu nwoke ni ne na gba na ilo (Don't you know he is a man and all men cheat) said the sister-in-law.
There are so many female groups on this facebook where they tell themselves that women are simply born to please men and live with every bullshit then they sum it up with verses from the Koran and Bible where women are called to total submission.
A woman complained on a group about her husband sleeping with their 14 years old help. The help told her oga asked her not to tell madam or he will deal with her. On that group, creatures who call themselves mothers told her not to blame her husband but the little girl. They urged her to save her marriage by telling no one about it and sending the little girl back to the village. How can a 14 year old seduce a man in his 50's?
Women are the enablers of patriachy and abuse against women. I encounter them and I feel very sorry for them because they have no life. Not living, simply existing.
One said to me 'Chi, di gi bukwa chi inahuanya (your husband is the god you see). He is a man and can do whatever he likes. Don't complain even if he hurts you if you want your marriage to last'. Then they give you that bullshit talk about men being babies. I didn't try to talk her out of that mentality because certain ignorance can't be wiped off. It is not everyone you advise. It is just a waste of time and you will be seen as bad influence so I just listen. I truly felt sorry for her.