Marriage is the process of two young people, each exiting their respective families of origin to form a new family, what's wrong with that?
The new family will be able to support them financially, whether it is a dowry or a bride price.
But this support is to a pair of young people's marriage maintenance as a prerequisite, whether it is a dowry or bride price, are to maintain their new family's future life, how it has become the woman's premarital property? I really don't understand.
I know there will be many female fist to spray, but if your marriage relationship can not be maintained, you are not the man's daughter-in-law or the woman's son-in-law, your life and people have a dime to do with it? Why do you want to spend their money?
Some people say that this is a guarantee for the woman, but once the marriage is broken, in the end it is easier for the woman or the man to remarry? The woman just needs to pack her bags, the same can marry well. But now the marriage, as long as it goes to break, almost to the male side of two generations of life, right, so, in the end, who needs this protection more?
Many women, a few of your family, several lifetimes can not afford a house to see your own level is also limited, how do you expect the man in addition to buy a house, but also to be able to buy a house for your brother brother. Even if they can afford it, are you worthy of such a man? (Not to mention, there are really this kind of dumbed down cheap men)
Some women say that after they get married, they have to serve the man's family, how to how aggravating, but I see the men around is, in addition to work every day, morning and evening they are picking up the children, and the wife to go grocery shopping, they have to tutor the children's homework, of course, their wives are also at work. As for what you say about uneducated, lazy, nothing to do scum, where in the end? I'm not saying there aren't any around, but those men are all single now. So, you do not because a very few men irresponsible, let all the men to carry the pot.
Don't think too much, our family a son and a daughter, the daughter in a few years, also to the age of the cabinet, we said, the daughter married, do not receive bride price, or a symbolic collection of a few thousand 10,000 yuan look. This is only to fulfill the rituals passed down from the ancestors, not to see the amount of money. Our daughter is priceless, some people, your family more money and more bride price, our daughter's future and happiness, you are not worthy of.
As for our son? Of course, when marrying, the etiquette still needs to be, but those families who move to ask us how much bride price to show their attitude, please go around, you do not deserve.
