we can not live life by attending to the way others see our acts or thoughts. Many will not understand. By affinity we are always attracted to people who resonate with our feelings but if it is the case that we are in a situation where there are different people as we express ourselves and the interaction will result in discord, it is always better to retire and be alone until the emotionality is calm . I do not believe people who are always positive, you also have to let negativity flow without harming others or oneself and understand those processes in order to change them. You are the owner of yourself and only you can love and understand yourself.