A farmer drove his tractor out to do business, and after he finished it, he hurried back. Just before we got home, the brake line of the tractor broke. When the farmer saw his wife squatting at the door, he shouted at her and waved his arm. He wanted her to send the pliers in the cupboard at home, but because of the distance, she couldn't hear what he was shouting at all.
The farmer cried his mouth dry, but it didn't work. He decided to give his wife a gesture, and he thought that she would be able to understand. Then, the farmer raised one hand above his head, held it one by one, made a gesture of holding pliers, then made a gesture of pushing open the cupboard door, and then made a picture of a bowl.
The wife nodded with a smile, turned around, patted her ass with her hand, and shook her head hard. "This stupid woman, stupid woman." The farmer scolded himself, "I can't see it better than drawing it so clearly." The farmer was very angry and drew again.
What makes the farmer even angrier is that his wife is still smiling and patting and shaking there.
This time, the farmer was furious, angrily returned home, and scolded his wife: "You stupid woman, how clearly my gestures are played, you can't understand, what are you blindly drawing there?" "You are stupid," the wife retorted angrily. "I have already understood it. Don't you want pliers? And told me the pliers were in the cupboard. Am I not clear enough than I draw? I patted my ass to tell you that there are pliers in the toolbox under your ass. "
People like farmers are not uncommon in life. They always think they are smart, but they don't know that they have misunderstood others. They are always used to standing in their own position, thinking and doing things in their own way, thinking that others must understand what they have done, and asking others to understand him. Once others don't respond immediately, they get angry and think that the other party is stupid and stupid. As everyone knows, they are the stupidest and dumbest.
When we get along with people, there are some minor misunderstandings, which make us angry and unhappy, but as long as both sides explain the problems clearly, there will usually be no serious consequences. Therefore, in the event of misunderstanding, we must calm down and never get emotional.
A young couple got married. After marriage, their wives died in childbirth, leaving a child behind. Father is busy with his life, and he is busy looking after his children. So he trained a dog to take care of the children. That dog is clever and obedient, and will soon be able to take care of children.
One day, my father was going out and left the dog to take care of the children.
The father went to other villages, and due to heavy snow, he couldn't go back that day, but he hurried home the next day. He opened the door and found that there was blood everywhere, the child was gone, and the dog was around, full of blood. When he found this situation, the father thought it was the dog's wild attack and ate the child. In a rage, he took the knife and chopped it at the dog's head, killing the dog.
After a while, the father suddenly heard the child's voice and saw the child climb out of the bed, so he picked up the child. It was found that although the child had blood, he was not injured. This father is very strange. I don't know what's going on. Look at the dog lying in a pool of blood. There's a piece of meat missing from the dog's leg. There's a wolf lying next to it. The wolf still bites the dog's meat. It is the saddest misunderstanding in the world that the dog saved his little master but was killed by his master by mistake.
Therefore, misunderstanding often occurs when people are ignorant, irrational, impatient, lack of thinking, unable to understand each other in many ways, reflect on themselves, and feel extremely impulsive. At the beginning of misunderstanding, we will only think of each other's mistakes, which will make the misunderstanding get deeper and deeper, and finally get out of control. Misunderstanding of ignorant puppies will have such terrible consequences, and the misunderstanding between people is even more unimaginable.
Everyone has a different way of thinking and a different angle of thinking. Misunderstanding others is inevitable in one's life. People who misunderstand others are usually angry and easy to make irrational behaviors. And people who are misunderstood will feel wronged and sad.
Some people are depressed, while others are over-excited, thinking that others don't understand themselves too much, and they plan to take revenge to eliminate the resentment caused by misunderstanding.
In fact, these are not the solutions to the problems. On the contrary, they will make things more complicated and cause greater losses. The correct way is to ease the misunderstanding and resolve the contradiction, so as to turn the error into a turning point.