On Blue Cats and Amazon.

in motherhood •  7 years ago 

About a month ago we ended up with an Amazon gift card. We could only use it for the U.S. Amazon so we decided to buy books. Childrens' books. I ended up spending my last cash on books a few times so it was only natural for us not to buy stuff for ourselves but to instead buy books, I long wanted, for our kids that are not available in Croatia. Now that I wrote this I realize I did kind of buy this for me too. I really enjoy teaching them new stuff. It's amazing how much kids can learn if you present the information in an age-appropriate manner. They can even make you rethink stuff you believe if you encourage them to ask questions. Their questions are not tainted by some things we were taught not to question or we took at face value. They are genuine, honestly curious and often brilliantly insightful.



Last year I participated in a bit of a heated discussion in a fairly big mommy-group on Facebook. It all started with a concerned mom posting a picture of a book called ''Babies first words'' that featured a blue cat on the cover and had words in it like ''Barn'' (Štagalj) and ''Piano''(that was actually called Piano in the book) and ''Skipping rope'' (Uže za preskakanje) if I remember correctly. The woman was concerned, I would go as far as to say she was annoyed, that such book is marketed for babies. Her concern was that those words aren't for babies and, what especially stuck with me, there were also complaints about the blue cat on the cover. Their argument was that the kids are going to think cats are blue. I was very taken aback by the way they understood reading and books. Why would they think a baby would think cats are blue after reading a book and not think pigs could talk after watching Peppa? Why would they think ''skipping rope'' or ''barn'' are not age appropriate words? Not that the book was saying ''genocide'' or ''fellatio'' or ''fuck you mother for reading this utterly preposterous book to me''. Did they really think so little of their kids?

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The controversial baby book


Right about that time a video came across my news feed about this series of books from Chris Ferrie, a Senior Lecturer in Centre for Quantum Software and Information at the University of Technology, Sydney. The book was called ''Quantum Physics. '' I won't go into much detail about this book, or other ones that we own from this author, but I thought to myself, what would they say if they heard about this? Those mothers? And as I looked more into it I really wanted to present my kids with this ideas. And I did. A friend that came over from the US bought them for me: Quantum Physics for Babies, General Relativity for Babies and Newtonian Physics for Babies. They were so much fun. So this time around we got three books from his ABC's series: ABC's of Mathematics, Physics, and Science. Now, I obviously don't think I'm raising baby Einsteins or that my kids are more gifted or brighter than other kids. I really, truly, believe that each child ever born is brilliant in its own way. I believe that if it could just have the world and educational system that would speak to him, to each child, according to their ability, their personality, and treat them as equal in worth and tell them they are capable and able, we would see their brilliant starting to shine through. Kids are curious by default and they are artful by default, which is their great advantage over us, adults, and if we don't screw them up they will come through.


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Actual photo of me discovering the package the day I went to replace the dismembered internet modem adapter.


This was the first time we got anything off of Amazon and I was so excited when the books came because I did not expect them to be here in 10 days time. I actually plan to save all my earning from the ''kids books'' series and invest in more books. Because you really cannot have nor read too many books. I remember I use to read so much in school my librarian in my primary school didn't believe me I've actually read the book when I tried to return it. It was ''Love or Death'' by a famous Croatian kids author Ivan Kušan. They even made it into a movie. I devoured that one.


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Thinking Art


I would consider it a great parenting success if my kids would love to read. I lived in Hogwarts for years thanks to books. I've been around the world in 80 days and in the center of the world. I've visited Winterfell and I've been all over Wells with the Famous Five. Not to mention, kind of oddly now I think of it, how many love stories I've seen made happen in Ireland. I guess I'm drawn to Irish love stories. Reading takes you to places and worlds, wonderful ones, you never knew you wanted to visit. It makes you wanna try all thing ginger and butterbeer and it makes you have compassion for the least popular and for the worst ones. All art forms have their place but there will never be a form more dear to my heart then the written word. Because, as mama Ru would put it, reading is what? Fundamental. And I will make it my New Years Resolution #11 to read to them, and with them, more.

Here are some books of ours that I plan to write about:


The Book With No Pictures by B.J.Novak. I'll just say my kids love this so much they read it a million times and even made @redrumtom read it to them when he came over.

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Other stuff I wanted to write about is vintage editions and classics. Also, the importance of reading classical fairy tales to kids.

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Books on foreign languages and the importance of seeing how thing are written when learning a new language.

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Books about religion. I don't like the idea of holiday celebration being just about Christmas presents and egg hunting. I would like them to understand the story behind it and to get to know customs of our faith. Well, my faith. I have no idea what they will grow up to believe. I would like to get some books about other religions. I have friend and acquaintances that are Muslim, Buddhist and Jewish so I'll ask them to help me out.

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Oh, this one is a gem! Good Night Stories For Rebel Girls. I was following this story on social networks. Well, Facebook, because I'm an idiot for any other social network. It started out as a brilliant idea and with a little help of crowdfunding, it became reality and quickly got translated into many languages.

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I look forward to expanding this theme through a series of posts and I would love to hear, well, to read, your input. Wich books do you pick for your kids? Did you read any of the ones I've mentioned? Do you have any book recommendations? If you wrote something about kids books send me a link or if you plan to write something use the hashtag #booksrock so I can find you. And a shoutout to my friend @dumar022 for teaching me how to do those little dividing lines around the pictures.

P.S. I taught my kids to Macarena. I won parenting today.

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I LOVE this post. I am always looking for new kids books recommendations and we have lots of great ones. What did you think of the ABCs of maths/science/physics?

It's curious. I'll be sure to do a review of some sorts next week. The first three books are at my friends, so when I get them back I'll write about all six of them.

I will look forward to it. You can never have too many books ;)
Our favourite's right now are '1001 things to spot at the seaside' 'The Gruffalo' and 'Kitty Kat Kitty Kat Where Have you Been' - we have the London and Paris versions.

We were talking about that mommy group on facebook but I didn't know they went that far :'D That's just ridiculous.
What do they say about Milka chocolate commercials? :'D

It's not our local group tho. This one was on a grander level. I'm afraid to ask our native moms anything :D

@big.mama I am WITH you. Can't have blue cats, must have gender appropriate names.. what is happening to the world!?! Why are we dumbing down our babies by restricting what is age appropriate and dictating their imagination? I get everything you're saying and totally respect you going above and beyond to raise your babies in such an open-minded way! Going to get some of these books for my niece. Can't wait for your reviews! Thank you for sharing this.

I have to start collecting books for my baby, but here in Venezuela there is not much choice, you can only buy a book of 4 traditional stories "Little Red Riding Hood", "The Ugly Duckling", "The Sleeping Beauty" and "The cat with boots".

Another option is to download books online.

Greetings to my friend from the Mexican novels

Thats a good start

I think the Universe is trying to tell me something... Yesterday I was at a post office and the woman behind the counter had the book Good Night Stories For Rebel Girls next to her keyboard, now I see you have mentioned it too :)
Thank you for sharing this, it was a lovely post. Readers are not born, they are made, and you sure are making them.