FATHER’S MAKE THEIR DAUGHTERS EXCELLENT TO THEIR WORLD. WHY DAUGHTERS NEED THEIR DADS

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FATHER’S MAKE THEIR DAUGHTERS EXCELLENT TO THEIR WORLD.
WHY DAUGHTERS NEED THEIR DADS

Daughters will say men, we need you. The mothers, daughters, and sisters need your help to raise healthy young women. We need every ounce of masculine courage and with you own because fathers, more than anyone else, set the course for a daughter’s life. I have listened hour after hour to young girls describe how they vomit in junior high bathrooms to keep their weight down.

SOME WONDERFUL EFFECT ON TEENAGE DAUGHTERS

I have listened to 13 years old girls tell me they have to provide sex acts that disgust them in order to keep their boyfriends. I’ve watched girls drop off university football teams, dropped out of school, and shape initials or tattoo cult figures onto their bodies all to see if their Father will notice. Fathers, more than anyone else, set the course for a daughter’s life. And I have watched girls talk to their Daddy. When you come in the room, they adjust their attitudes and discussion about them changes: their eyes, their mouths, their motions, their body systems. Daughters are never unexcited in the presence of their fathers. They might take their mothers for granted, but not their Dad, they light up or they cry they watch you intensely. They hang on your words they hope for your devotion, and they wait for it in irritation or in gloom. They need a gesture of approval, a nod of encouragement, or even simple eye contact to let them know you care and are willing to help. When she’s around Daddy, she tries harder to surpass. When Dad teach her, she learns more swiftly.

FATHERS MONITOR YOUR DAUGHTERS

When you monitor her, she gains assurance and poise. If you fully understood just how profoundly you can influence your daughter’s life, you would be astounding. Boyfriends, brothers, even husbands can’t shape her personality the way you do. You will influence her entire life because she respects you and your authority she gives no other man. But your daughter faces a world clearly different from the one you did growing up: it’s less friendly, morally unhealthy, and even outright unsafe. After age six.
Many wears are cut to make her look like a seductive 12 or 14-year-old girl trying to attract older boys. She will enter youthful earlier than girls did a group or two ago and boys will be watching as she begins to physically mature even as young as age eight.
She will see sexual intimation or scenes of explicit sexual behavior in magazines or on television before she is ten years old, whether you support or not. She will learn about HIV and AIDS in elementary school and will also probably learn why and how it is transmitted.

FATHER’S MENTORING GOES A LONG WAY

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Fathers are what stand between daughters and this evil, bad groups and wrong girls out there in world. IF YOU’RE READING THIS, YOU ARE A MOTIVATED, SENSITIVE, AND CARING FATHER. You are a good man, but you’re probably exhausted. For you, there is good news or cruel news. The good news is that in order to experience a richer life and raise a fabulous daughter, you don’t need to change your personality. You need only to indulge what’s best in your character. You have everything you need for a better relationship with your daughter. Most especially give her the deserve time, and consciously conditioned the kind of information she receives all around, on the internet, social media, on TV visual appealing manner, on the street, the dressing and lifestyle around her. Here’s the bad news. You need to stop in your tracks, open your eyes wider, and see what your daughter faces today, tomorrow, and in ten years. It’s tough and it’s frightening, but this is the way it is.

DAUGHTERS WILL DO WELL WHEN DAD IS ALWAYS AROUND TO TEACH HER

While you want the world to be cautious and gentle with her, it is cruel beyond imagination even before she is a teen. Even though she may not participate in ugly stuff, it’s all around her: sexual promiscuity, alcohol abuse, foul language, illegal drugs, and predatory boys and men who want only to take something from her. Don’t think you can’t fight her “peers” or the power of pop culture. Exactly the opposite is true. Yes, the four Ms MTV, music, movies, and magazines are enormous influences that shape what girls think about themselves, what clothes they wear, and even the grades they get. But their influence doesn’t come close to the influence of a father.

A CARING FATHER DOES MAKE THE WORLD GO AROUND


Fathers always come out on top. The effects of loving, caring fathers on their daughters’ lives can be measured in girls of all ages. When you are with her, whether you eat dinner and do homework together or even when you are present but don’t say much, the quality and stability of her life and, you’ll find, your own improves immeasurably. Even if you think the two of you operate on different aircraft, even if you worry that time spent with her shows no measurable results, even if you doubt you are having a meaningful impact on her, the proven fact is that you are giving your daughter the greatest of gifts. Your daughter will view this time spent with you vastly differently than you do.

Over the years, in erratic bursts and in simple ordinary life together, she will fascinate your influence. She will watch every move you make. She might not understand why you are happy or angry, affectionate, but you will be the most important man in her life, forever. When she is twenty-five, she will mentally size her boyfriend or husband up against you. When she is thirty-five, the number of children she has will be affected by her life with you.

HER FUTURE WILL BE SHAPED BY YOUR EXCELLENCE AND PERFECT EXAMPLE


The clothes she wears will reflect something about you. Even when she is seventy-five, how she faces her future will depend on some distant memory of time you spent together. Be it good or painful, the hours and years you spend with her—or don’t spend with her—change who she is. Come on men, we daughters need you!

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