How to Find Like-Minded and Positive People

in motivation •  3 years ago 

Do you find it difficult to attract and retain good quality people? Do you want to be able to take the best people and turn them into great employees, partners or business partners? If so, you are not alone. The following paragraphs may help you overcome the challenges of attracting and retaining like-minded and positive individuals.


You can practice self-love by allowing yourself to experience things that are different from what you have been accustomed to. This will allow your mind and spirit to start focusing on something new. If you do not allow yourself to see something new, chances are, you will not notice it if someone else does. Taking a break from old thoughts will enable you to notice the beautiful, creative, unique thoughts floating around in your head and heart.

Being able to let go of feelings of guilt and shame related to previous choices is a tremendous skill. When you decide to forgive yourself for past mistakes and decide to focus on the present, you will begin to realize that you have choices that have meaning. You no longer will be limited by previous choices that you made. When you are able to let go of guilt, you are also able to let go of anything that you feel guilty about. This is a great way to live in a manner that is free of worry, stress and fears.

Thinking about and examining your habits, however, is not a bad idea. This will allow you to find something new and refreshing about your current thoughts. When you do spend time thinking about and examining these habits, you will discover new ways to deal with issues and concerns. This will give you more confidence in your abilities as well as better strategies for dealing with concerns and problems that come up today.

When you want to find somebody who can listen and learn from your struggles and triumphs, it is important that you don't dwell too much on the things that you did wrong. Instead, when you think about these things, try to see the bigger picture. This will help you let go of feelings of guilt and shame and move toward positive thoughts and actions.

While you can certainly practice self-love and let go of negative thoughts, there is a certain line you need to cross. If you are harboring feelings of guilt or shame, you should know that you shouldn't keep dwelling on them. Dwelling on such things will only lead to negativity. Instead, focus your attention and thoughts on all of the great things that you have done in the past. This will help you let go of past hurts and encourage you to look forward into the future.

To find like-minded and positive people, spend time seeking out those who share similar values and interests with you. If you live in the same city, maybe it would be worthwhile to network with other like-minded individuals. Or, you can attend events where you will be able to interact with many different people. Just be sure that you keep the door open for constructive criticism as well as love and support.


Life can be very frustrating at times. While you may have many negative things going on in your life, you should realize that you are not alone. There are countless other people who are going through the exact same things that you are. One great way to keep yourself motivated and positive in life is to find others that have overcome the same challenges that you have and sit down with them to talk about what they did to move forward. It may also be a good idea to spend time with positive people in general; this will help you let go of negative thoughts and allow you to be inspired by the great things that are happening in your life.

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