Don't just talk; show them what you can do.

in motivation •  7 years ago  (edited)

 

Talk less and act more. 


Isn't this a popular saying? Well, I have been a culprit in this act. I tend  to talk more about what I intend to do than actually doing it and it has  cost me so much. 

See what happened to me some  days ago when I had the feeling that steller lumen XLM will soon be  pumped and Cardano with so much publicity will go high, I wanted to buy  and make gains from both. I even told other people to buy. But I kept on  saying I'll buy mine until the prices got really pumped. Lol! If only I  had acted without talking, I would have gotten 3x my investment. That  was how Procrastination, talking without acting cost me some cool  profit. 

Psychologists found out that, when we keep telling other people about what we want to achieve too often, our  minds will record the words over time, and it will begin to feel and act  like it has achieved that thing. Which in turn will make you feel  satisfied and leave you with a lesser drive to work towards bringing it  to futility. However, if you keep saying it to yourself, you'll begin to  feel the inner urge to make it come to pass. 

How to free yourself from this problem  


Well  after I missed out on profiting from the recent steller lumen XLM and  Cardano pump(I do believe Cardano will be good for long-term hodl),  I made a vow to stop procrastinating and telling people what I'll do. I  have made a decision to always show people what I have achieved and not  what I want to achieve. Here are some tips on guidelines I now follow. 

  • Whenever a thought of something I'll do comes to my mind, I'll write it down immediately.
  • I'll not tell anybody about it. 
  • I'll draft a road-map on how to achieve it 
  • I'll  read it to myself at least three times in a day. Importantly, every  morning immediately I wake up and at night before going to sleep. 
  • I'll give myself a deadline on when I should have gotten it done. 
  • I'll set out a punishment for myself if eventually, I break any of the rules. 
  • I'll only tell someone about my plans only if I need assistance from an outside source.

This  has helped me achieve a lot in less than 2 days I started it. If you  have the same habit of talking more and doing less, you can give it a  trial and see if it works for you. 

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Wow what an inspirational post

nice

Its happen to me also, which plat forme do you trading ploniex or bitrex ..? @ogoowinner

Bittrex

time to show what we are made up of !!!

Indeed, our brains are so much activity to process too many activities, but our body doesn’t reciprocate to same velocities, leaving us with so many unfinished agendas.

But discipline is another way to task ourselves to act more than saying.

Thanks @ogoowinner.

Procrastination is a terrible thing. Thank you for the tips, I am going to find them really helpful.

Awesome point...keep up👍

Wow fantastic... Its only your action that will get your result for you. Thanks for sharing

I'll definitely take a leaf from you.Thank you for sharing.

This your post reminds me about how i use to over store information on my head, yet i will still want to process everything and achieve everything by just thinking it through, of which have lead to a lot of commotion. But that moment i discover how important it is to not just think about what to do, but also learn to put it down. Immediately i start to put all i want to get done in a sheet of paper or by typing them out, i start giving room for fresh idea and also start getting more done.

@ogoowinner am happy you have share this for the community to learn from you

Psychologists found out that, when we keep telling other people about what we want to achieve too often, our minds will record the words over time, and it will begin to feel and act like it has achieved that thing. Which in turn will make you feel satisfied and leave you with a lesser drive to work towards bringing it to futility. However, if you keep saying it to yourself, you'll begin to feel the inner urge to make it come to pass.

You are really correct about that, it has happened on so many occasions, rather than telling others, say it to yourself and work at it.