People sometimes may prefer to just assume rather than ask questions about what's really happening. Bobby and James worked in the same office as well as Jane they worked in the creative department in a branding company.
Jane was dark and beautiful so beautiful that Bobby and James couldn't take their eyes off her, she was also very friendly especially with James. Bobby and James were both interested in Jane although Jane was more friendly with James, for that reason Bobby admitted in his heart that Jane like James.
Jane really liked James and for every time they had together James showered so much attention on Jane and treated her nicely.
During their break sessions at the office, Jane would go to the eatery with James and always had to be on the same table always.
Bobby concluded from all that was happening that He never stood a chance on getting along with the beautiful Jane.
Just after the weekends James will come to the office on Monday and always tell Bobby how nice Jane has been all weekend, and they had beautiful moments together.
The proposal.
One evening James called Jane and told her it was time to discuss a proposal plan with her.
Jane was so happy, she prepared her house expecting James.
James arrived at Jane's house and was so amazed with the beauty and splendor of the preparation for that evening.
James and Jane has good meal prepared by Jane. Afterwards James then started.....
"My dear Jane, I really want to let you know that my way of being your true friend is always being interesting, I have taken a bold step today, because I will propose to my girl friend this evening, and she has agreed to marry me".
Jane couldn't hold back herself from crying immediately, because she had assumed for the past months that Him and James was in a relationship, meanwhile James only thought the relationship they had been based on friendship.
When Bobby heard the news from James at His office that He has proposed to another girl He felt disappointed because He had also thought that James was in a relationship with Jane.
Just my random thought!
People go through life assuming some things will work for them or assuming of critical conditions life does not work by assumptions.
Jane was so happy, she prepared her house expecting James.
For relationships, never assume anyone is in a relationship with you without hearing from them their commitment level.
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In any kind of relationship we can make the assumption that others know what we think, and we don’t have to say what we want. They are going to do what we want because they know us so well. If they don’t do what we want, what we assume they should do, we feel hurt and think, “How could you do that? You should know.” Again, we make the assumption that the other person knows what we want. A whole drama is created because we make this assumption and then put more assumptions on
top of it.
Thanks iya agba @prettjules158 for sharing
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I trust you dear.thats a beautiful write up @prettyjules158
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Hmmmm. Pretty nice advice. You are right, assumptions leads to heartbreaking at times
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Assumption is a bad thing. If one isn't clear about something, it is good to ask questions before concluding.
Thanks for this powerful post
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Hello @prettyjules158 I am @melody1 and I must say this is a well written post.
Many ladies are in relationships without sitting down to define the relationship the are currently in with their supposed partners.
Imagine how disappointed that lady would feel watching him.propose to another lady
This is an eye opener.
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Good motivation "James and Jane has good meal prepared by Jane" but suddenly change motivation. it's really bad. Thanks, @prettyjules158
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Assumptions (which are most times wrong) has the ability to ruin great relationships. I believe it is important we ask questions, it doesn't cost us anything, in fact it only gives us more clarity. I can see James believed Jane to be his great friend. The friendship between them might be done after that, so sad!
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It's human nature to assume. But we have to learn to ask questions and make enquiries before rushing a conclusion.
Assumption is the least form of reasoning, anyone can assume. It is reasonable to make proper enquiries before reaching a conclusion
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A beautiful story, between Jane, James and Bobby. A saying always goes don't judge the book by its cover. To those reading our wonderful and favorite @prettyjues158.
Relationship aren't built over night, it's not a magical fantasy.. Relationship are built based on ,"what both partners need". Because, if it isn't define someone will eventually get hurt.. And In worst cases might even take it an extra mile to hurt the other, just because it wasn't defined.
Friendships and relationships are quite complicated, but eventually becomes perfect, which can only be achieved when it's defined by the parties involved. You are my favorite, author @prettyjules158. Keep affect people around you.
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Interesting and educative piece.....Assumptions has leads to many heartbreak....like you said "stop assuming and asking"
This is always the reason why many guys lose out on proposing to their missing libs due to assumption. "May be they are dating, let me respect myself before she snob me"
Thanks @prettyjules for sharing
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Especially, the relationship between man and woman shouldn't be based on personal assupmtion
Good one @prettyjules158
Thanks dear
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Good post from you @prettyjules158keep it up
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Great post!
Thanks for tasting the eden!
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nice pictures nice letter
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