WHAT TO DO WHEN FRIENDS TURN YOU DOWHELLO EVERYONE
Am Steve Power. I found myself better this morning after having a really bad for two days yesterday straight with so much on my mind, trust me it was really frustrating and aggravating nevertheless let me quickly narrate what happened.
It all started on the 18th of April 2017 and at that day it was a friends (Daniel) birthday, have known Dan for over 5yrs in school (ODUDUWA UNIVERSITY) and we have been through ups and down together and I considered him a brother.
On that very day on his birthday I had an appointment with a client who picked that same day to talk about a business she was to start, in addition really did not have much cash on me to get transport myself to the venue of the celebration which was at the other end of town, thou I got a call from a brother of mine to try and make it but the cost was just too much so I stayed for the meeting at the end of everything I got home so tired and I slept off. On waking up my friend who I claimed as a brother came around with a mutual friend who lived in the same compound with me, but saw me and gave me a really cold and ice shoulder and did not alter a word to me only a wicked and angry look like I had committed a crime of a death sentence, with no room for explanation. I tried to explain but to no avail hmmmm, I guess water has become ticker than blood and I felt so down and the gift I had gotten him laid in my room to be a surprise for him but at the end turned out to be a price of no value and I felt no own wants me around.
The following day, I wake up thinking all would have been a thing of the past but in all even got worst, it was at that point I looked at myself and asked a question “do I allow my friends to determine how my life would be or to tell me when to be happy and then I knew I am what I say I am, I am not made by words of others but your own words, liked the old saying go “HEROES ARE NOT BORN, HEROES ARE MADE JUST BY A SINGLE EVENT”.
Am using this as a medium to everyone out there that has gone through hard times with friends and brother hood there are some things what fighting for and there are not what fighting. So I think every friendship that can’t go the length you are willing to go and any one that’s pulling you back in life should be dropped and focus that emotion in making or doing something beautiful cause that facts still remain that there will always be better people in your life sooner or letter.
Please am open to any advice or similar event.
Thank You