Take little breaks from life and listen to what nature tells you.
Don't take the umbrella with you and let rain cleanse your soul. Repeat this until you feel clean on the inside. You can't turn a bad situation around if you are stuck in the old fashioned ways. So, why not go crazy wet and smell your shampoo, trust me everyone appreciates that smell but you, but when rain hits you, that smell comes out as a bird in captivation...
Stay positive all!