If you have been following the news lately, you have heard of the Turpin family. This was a family located in California. They also happen to homeschool. The 17 year old daughter recently escaped their home and called 911 to report the abuse her siblings were suffering. Upon entering the home, police officers found children chained to furniture, completely malnourished and living in filth. Six of the children in the home were said to be adults, one in preschool and six were school aged. The home was registered as a private school in California with the father being the principal.
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According to the law, there are three ways to register as a homeschooling family in California. This family had legally registered their homeschool as a private school and mailed in the necessary paperwork yearly. Even though they followed this law, they were abusing their children. This has led many to lump homeschooling families together and call for tougher laws for these families. California politician Jose Medina is one of those requesting more regulations so that he can insure this will not happen again. He believed they were able to do this because the children were hidden from the public. Under current California law, the California Department of Education does not monitor, inspect or oversee private schools.
I already can tell just from reading about regulations in California that their rules for homeschooling are more strict than other states. For example, to homeschool in Texas, you simply need to pick a curriculum and begin schooling your children. There is no paperwork you need to fill out, no checking in that needs to be done, essentially there is nothing unless your child was already in a public school. If that is the case, you simply write the district a letter letting them know you will be in charge of the child’s education. A friend of mine would homeschool in Pennsylvania and she would have to create a portfolio for her son each year to be evaluated by a teacher in the district to make sure he was on course with the rest of students his age.
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The problem here is not the homeschooling laws, but instead it is the abusive families. One does not need to punish all homeschooling families because of one bad apple (or potentially many bad apples)! We cannot all be held guilty by association just because we are all lumped in one category of families who homeschool. The problem does not get better by requiring families to check in regularly with CPS, open their homes for surprise inspections or randomly interrogate children about their family life.
The Turpin family had two demented adults at the head. They were able to hide the fact of their abuse from family members in other states. They knew just what to do to stay hidden from the public eye, because they did not want to be found out. Tougher regulations on their family, or others like them, would not necessarily insure that no other child would be abused at home by their parents. Abuse happens just as likely at public schools, by teachers (hello Mary Kay Letourneau), at churches, with friends, and the list goes on and on.
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Homeschooling is a right that we must protect. Millions of children worldwide are homeschooled because their parents have made a decision to remove them from public school and take an invested interest in their education. There are many reasons parents do this. Most parents who do this are deeply involved and interested in their children, knowing that they love them more than any teacher ever could, so they truly have their best interests at heart. As a former public school teacher, I know now that my children are receiving a better and more well-rounded education than they would have in public school. I cannot even imagine sending them to public school.
Adding extra requirements would not do anything but take away time that these parents should be investing in their children and their education. Allowing CPS or another party to enter each home and evaluate them is definitely not the answer! Abusers will find a way around any law that is put out there. Extra regulations on families would make it impossible for some to continue to homeschool their children. This is a right we cannot allow to be taken away.
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I agree whole heartedly! One horrific case of abusive parents (who homeschool) does not out weigh all of the myriads of cases of abuse in the public education system. Where are the calls for "greater regulation" within the classrooms? To say that CPS needs to get involved in every homeschooling family is outrageous. @ironshield
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Lol - greater regulation in the classroom doesn't get you anywhere! They don't care about the classroom. They care about the homeschools because those homeschool kids should be sitting in the classroom where the school makes their money. At home, they aren't getting a penny out of those kids. That's what this is all about. I read a post on a friend's FB page today and she spelled it out. The "facts" here aren't adding up. Whether this family really did this to their kids or not, the mainstream media is crucifying them and all other homeschool families in hopes of ending this "trend" of homeschooling. Parents in CA pulled their kids from school over the mandate that they must be fully vaccinated. So CA lost money when they started homeschooling. Now they need some crazy family to look horrible on the news who also homeschools. Wham. There you go.
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Yep, this is not a homeschooling issue really.. But rather about crazy people doing this to their kids. Maybe there should be some type of checkups on the families who choose to homeschool their children? Just to check if something like this do not happen in the future.
It is sad to read about these things happening to children. Unfortunately, it is probably not the first case of such a thing happening. But, homeschooling has nothing to do with this. This all has to do with crazy people doing crazy thing to their children.
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There does not need to be a check on homeschool families to ensure we don't do this to our kids in the future. Most families homeschool in order to keep their kids from being bullied, bored or worse at school. They are loving families who want to be with their kids. I don't know of a single family who homeschools who doesn't like their children. Mine drive me insane some times, but I think they're the coolest kids out there. ;) This family...whatever they did or did not do...is being used by mainstream media to prove a point. The government wants more regulations, fewer people homeschooling and more money put into schools for childrens' attendance. If this family is really guilty of this, they are sick, but it has nothing to do with them homeschooling. The "facts" of this case don't line up.
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and the media will ALWAYS pick the most negative horrible stories to focus attention on when it comes to homeschooling... among other topics.
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Yes, that is so true. And they don't even tell the truth or really relay all the facts. This case is definitely an example of the same.
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Great article! I stand with you on this as a homeschool parent. We cannot allow our right to teach our children to be taken away because of one bad apple. I hate to hear about abuse like this, especially when it’s from the parents. I pray for families and children’s like this often. Stories like these does put the heat on us because people place homeschoolers into one category. If one homeschool is doing it so are the others and that is definitely not the case. Thank you for bringing our attention to this~
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I read a post on a friend's Facebook page today that makes me question the validity of the whole situation. It is insane how the media plays their cards just right to create a frenzy over the abuse by this homeschooling family, when in all reality, it's probably more like California is trying to get less parents to homeschool. They've lost tons of federal dollars at their schools because of a required 100% vaccination policy of all students. So parents have pulled kids to homeschool them. What's the best way to get back at these parents? International media frenzy leading to regulations in California that make it more difficult to homeschool there! I don't know what the truth is in this situation, but a lot of the "facts" don't add up and if the mainstream media is picking up this story...it makes me wonder even more!
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Wow I had no idea all of that was going on out there. I must admit I’m glad to see more and more parents sticking their ground and not vaccinating under pressure. These vaccination laws are getting stricter and stricter. This is one of the reasons we don’t watch mainstream media any more...most of the news is exaggerated and even made up. It’s sad that you can’t trust the news channels to give you the real news. They don’t want us to know what’s really going on.
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Yes, they definitely don't want us to know what is going on! It is so sad that we can't trust the media. It is good to see parents standing up for their right to parent their own children and make decisions for them.
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👋🏽 Hey! I’m a homeschooling momma too. Glad to get familiar with more of us.
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Hey that’s awesome and great to know!!! 😃
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We need to all get together out there somewhere - discord or something!
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@metzli#4942
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Yes we do @apanamamama!! Totally agree!!!
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Agree. It's the human attitude that always become the root of the problem not the system. System can be changed but human attitude is the hardest to change. Like this family's case, their parent probably treated their children as an outsiders instead of their own children, maybe because they thought their way is the best way. I've seen some of my friends homeschooled and most of their parents are more strict than the school teachers but glad that they're not abusive.
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Homeschooling parents may be more strict than a public school teacher, but have you ever been in a public school classroom? Kids are insane and they can pretty much do anything to a teacher with very little discipline. I know, I was one. My kids behave very well because they know what is expected of them at home and they know there are consequences for not doing what they should. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. I don't know what the "facts" are involving this family, but they definitely don't make sense. Mainstream media is making sure of that.
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This is a thought provoking article. Do you think it would be better if a centralized organization should be required for home schooling families to support each other and provide protection for families in need?
Our family has considered homeschooling for a while but found we can't be with our kids for that long. It was better to send our sons to the public school and teach them after school.
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There are groups out there to provide legal protection for families. You can't be with your kids that long, as in all day? I do not sit with my kids all day long. We have a lot of stuff going on including meeting up with friends, chores, doing our schoolwork, making meals, playing outside, etc. If it were sit at a desk and look at each other all day (like a normal school-length day), no one would like that.
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Got it. Thanks @apanamamama for your reply. Bottom line is my wife thinks they need adult supervision all the time. So the school is like her babysitter.
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I found you through NeedleworkMonday but stayed for the articles.
I look forward to seeing more of your posts.
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Nice! Thanks for stopping by! I've seen a few of your other comments. :)
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I do agree the Turpin case is about abusive adults and not about homeschooling
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Yes, that is true. I hope the truth will come out at some point. I had forgotten that mainstream media can't be trusted to deliver the truth when I wrote this article. Now I'm finding out more "facts" behind this and wondering what the real deal is...losing out on money because parents decide to homeschool (and not vaccinate) sure is hard.
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It is hard to know what news is trust worthy and what to believe these days
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I agree. We home schooled our kids because English speaking school would have been enormously expensive where we lived at the time, and because they both have AD/HD or whatever is the latest term for it. We knew how to handle it, teachers seldom do (or did back then anyway).
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That is true - expensive and the teachers don't know how to handle anything that is out of the norm. I know, I was a public school teacher.
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Thank you for saying this. I think sometimes the tarnishing of homeschooling comes from people NOT understanding the reasons, family beliefs or wanting to blame homeschooling for other things; instead of the underlying main accusation.
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Yes, if this family is really as bad as they are saying they were, that is bad and they should be punished. If the media is blowing this up and using this family as an example of why homeschooling should be regulated, not cool. California recently lost a lot of money because parents pulled their kids from school to homeschool them. These parents did not like the mandatory 100% vaccination policy put in place. So the school districts started losing money when the kids weren't sitting in the seats all day long (and so did big pharma when the vaccines weren't handed out). It is crazy how the "facts" in this case don't line up but the timing of the media feeding frenzy does...
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The thing is: I don't really know if I believe the full story we are told. Things just don't add up. At all. It's mainstream media who is giving us this information. Think about it....And they weren't 'just' homeschooling, they were also non vax....The whole story sounds and looks fishy to me.
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So are you saying that there is something wrong with non-vaccination or that the government is trying to make an attack on home schooling anti-vaxxers?
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I would never say there is anything wrong with non-vaccination, my three youngest aren't vaccinated. The governor of California was the one who mandated vaccination. Pretty much forcing people who don't vaccinate to homeschool their kids. Now he's also the one with the biggest word in the aftermath of this. The way these people have been portrayed, now unvaccinating homeschooling families will be getting a harder time in California...and the rest of the US.
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Thanks for answering.
I’m a home schooler in California. I guess I’ll be seeing first hand what happens. Hopefully it will be mild.
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I hope so too, these times are scary sometimes for all of us 'other thinking people'. I just think they feel really threatened by alternative schooling and people who don't follow in line with what's considered 'normal'. That's why they're cramping down on as many as they can. I was already planning on writing a piece on this same subject when I read this one by @apanamamama so I kinda had to respond. Will probably still write it to share my point of view.
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You need to write one as well. Mine was done while thinking the family was totally guilty and believing what the media is telling us. I know now the behind the scenes stuff about CA and all of it doesn't add up. People need to have their eyes opened. I also hope it is mild @metzli - if you need a place to run, Panama is pretty good. ;)
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Yes, thank you for pointing this out to me! I hadn't even considered it and then I did a face palm. Duh!!! Of course mainstream media is going to pick this up and run with it!! Whether it happened or not... You are right that the "facts" don't add up. I had a friend post on FB somethings that happened in CA that led up to this. The timing is quite suspicious. CA loses money when parents pull kids from public school to homeschool them because they now require 100% vaccinations to attend public school and some parents don't like that. Losing money is not ok. They get money if those kids are sitting at school (and so does big pharma). But if they're sitting at home, they are losing out on all that money (and so is big pharma). NOT OK.
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They need to focus on abusing children by the politicians and the public warehousing indoctrination centers first before going ballistic over 0.000001% crimes committed by homeschoolers.
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Lol - oh so true. Thanks for the comment. The schools can't do any wrong because they're making money just by having the kids sitting in the seat. When the kids are at home, that's where the problem lies. Those dollars aren't rolling in the door...
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The Turpin family story is an incredibly depressing one. I do think you're right that homeschooling is a right that shouldn't be taken away- that being said, from your description I think Texas might be a little bit too relaxed about it. Perhaps better that than California's response, but I don't think there's ever a simple and easy answer to a question of increasing regulation in response to a few (severely) bad apples, as much as the "Won't someone please think of the children" types on one side and the libertarians on the other seem to think.
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Homeschooling in Texas was great and it's one of the best states to be a homeschooling parent. They are my children and no one needs to tell me exactly what subjects they should be learning, at what speed and how often. If I decide that I want to homeschool, I should be able to do that as I feel like I can and have the ability to. Regulations are not the answer. The problem they are having here is that parents in California are pulling kids because of vaccination laws. Then they decide to homeschool. If a child is homeschooled, that school district is not receiving money for them sitting in the chair all day long. So the schools lose out on money. Someone has to be blamed for this. Schools lose out on money and so does big pharma when the vaccines aren't doled out. We must crucify someone for these two mega corporations losing out on money. Enter Turpin family. Ah, perfect. The "facts" of their case against them don't line up, but they sure do go well with the timeline that was needed...
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The problem is not with homeschooling families, the families that elect to home school know the problem is with the public education system. The public education system knows this as well, but since they can't fix their mess they elect to screw with the families who decided to do something about it own their own. So we can expect that there will be some fall out from the Turpin Family situation with regard to homeschooling, it isn't necessary, but it is more convenient for the government to use it as a distraction, keeps people from looking into the mess that they are running and calling public education.
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Yes, this is so true! I'm glad to have you agreeing! I read a post on a friend's Facebook today that shed a lot of light into the situation. She said that a lot of families in CA had pulled their kids from public school to homeschool them because of the law requiring 100% vaccination (you must take all, not skip any) in all students. So CA is losing some major funding when these kids leave. The timing of this situation doesn't add up or the "facts" surrounding it. Why did they say they never go outside, yet there are pictures of them at Disneyland and others? I don't know what this family did or didn't do to their children, but I do know that the international mainstream media is using it to blast homeschool families. Yep, we're all the same, shoot us all.
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When kids can graduate high school and not even be able to read their diploma there is a problem. That situation occurs more than people want to admit, we have a nephew that is a prime example of that, and sadly enough his mother is a school teacher. She doesn't work for the district where he went to school but for her to let that happen is stupid and selfish on her part. He's 26 now and works at a fast food joint emptying trash cans and washing down the parking lots.
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Oh man! That is really sad. Definitely not good that so many teachers just passed him along, but quite true these days...
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You hit the nail exactly on the head. It’s not homeschooling it’s abuse that is the issue. Too often we try to find bogeymen to blame for tragedy. Sometimes tragedy happens because people are sick.
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Yes, that is so true! It is horrible that all homeschool families could suffer because of this one crazy family. I can't imagine what they did and we don't even know half of the story at this point. Sad.
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Wife and I were just talking about this exact issue the other night.
This, combined with California's already overly power-hungry CPS, is going to make it REALLY difficult for homeschooling families in CA from this point forward.
More undue scrutiny, more moves against families that aren't abusive, more reports, and more actions...just reflexively.
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I’m a California home schooler. It’s not so bad. Maybe I’m just used to all the California regulations so it doesn’t seem like a big deal, but really, it’s not a difficult thing to set up.
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Compared to other states though...
And it's about to get harder...
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I agree. Being from California, you just kind of get used to filling out the forms - I guess I’m desensitized to it.
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I totally get that. The other side to that is...at least here in WA...there are so many school administrators who try to push things as 'required' that aren't at all. A lot of parents here fall for it, too.
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@scotters @metzli - I homeschooled in Texas. My kids never had a paper filled out about their education. I had no problem with this and appreciated the freedom. I believe (now) that this family was being used by the media. Whatever they did or didn't do, the "news" was using them to prove a point. California public schools are losing money because of the mandated 100% vaccination of all students, so some parents are pulling kids to homeschool them. The timing of this "situation" was perfect to get international attention and force more rules to come down from the top. The "facts" of this do not add up. Not at all.
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I would not disagree with this at all...they are making a point that's unrelated. The issue is the abuse (assuming reports are correct) and has nothing to do with homeschooling.
This is also a big reason why, when our little one is older to choose a Make A Wish, that if she were to choose a Disney thing, we would want to go to FL instead...
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