My husband and I have been together for three years, and we live almost two and a half. While we met, he treated me normally, but as soon as they began to live together, he started to raise his hand, even on a pregnant woman.
I have two children, a daughter from the first marriage, and a son from the second, present husband, with whom I still live. We live with his mother. I loved him very much until he killed in me all the feelings for him with his attitude.
At first she forgave, forgot, many times she wanted to leave, but she did not go away, she hoped that eventually everything would change. Then came to the point that I officially divorced him, but we live together. I really want to leave him, but I can not yet, because it's hard to rent an apartment with two children.
He likes such a person, so that the last word is his. And if something is not in his, then immediately dismisses his hands, and then thinks that he is right and never apologizes. He says that my tongue is an enemy, and when I sit after that I'm offended and do not talk to him, he does not speak to me either, until I speak first.
And with all that, he sits all day on the Internet or goes for a walk with a friend, not delving into the family at all, does not deal with children. I always told him that I did not have enough attention, somehow tried to settle conflicts, cooked him delicious exotic dishes, but he did not please. Especially he does not like it when I make remarks to him, even the most innocuous.
His life suits me, but I do not. I want warmth, cares, and I'm always in suspense, because I'm afraid of another scandal. He does not want to hear me, and it all begins. And now, after such treatment, he still believes that it's my fault that we have such a family.