We lived with my husband (he is a military man) for 10 years. The child is 6 years old. Everything was perfect from the first meeting to the last days. They went through a lot (changing citizenship, death of dear people, hot spots, moving to another city, etc.) can not be enumerated.
I never drank alkogol, did not beat me, did not call me names, tried everything for the family, the family always came first, everything allowed (within reason). I adored the child! With parents, the relationship is excellent. Everyone shared with each other. Everyone envied us. I am an excellent hostess, but I try to look like 5. Trusted him and he to me, never were jealous of each other. Could for 2-3 months to leave with the child. Before the decree worked, after too, but since. moved to another city, no relatives, no friends, had to adjust to the schedule of her husband. Has left 1 year to work and has got to hospital, serious problems with health, was longly restored. Expensive treatment.
For this year, there were many problems: the parents' disagreement over the mistress, my illness, then the child fell ill. In general, it's bad. There were both quarrels and good things. And I also missed the money! And so he came and said that he has another (an employee with a child, left her husband when he met him) just agreed that we will not lie. He said that I am an ideal woman, mother, that I will not be more closely related, mother-in-law says that she loves me, and that I love him, that we do not have to hurt the child, we leave housing, the financial one is ready to help. He asks for forgiveness all the time.
I see that he is suffering or regretting? Things are not taken away, comes to eat, swim, to the child (he does not know how to tell him, because he will have to live for 1500 km), helps and buys everything, but sleeps at work. He said that he should think about it. I do not know what to do, keep or let go. I love him, and the child suffers without him. In general, I go crazy, my friends do not. Very hard. His parents are on my side, I still can not say my own, they will not sort themselves out among themselves, I'm afraid they will not forgive him, his father's character is heavy.