My husband has a girlfriend (a former lover, with whom he cheated on his ex-wife). At first, it did not bother me at all, everyone has friends, she is married, there is a child, we also have - 5 months. But then I noticed that he began to behave strangely, ie he sits at the computer, when I go into the room he either closes it, or closes the social network.
She asked what was secret, he mumbled something inaudibly. The phone carries almost any house in jeans at home, the sound is often off. Then it began to strain, as this communication lasted almost every day. I asked, is this friendship exactly? If so, why so secretly behave? He said that of course there is friendship, there is nothing between them, only communication, and if I do not like, he can refuse to communicate with her, since it means nothing to him. I said that he has the right to decide for himself, even if there is something more, it's better to tell me right away that we will find a solution together in a civilized way. To which he said that this is nonsense, now I will delete her contacts, I will write that his wife does not like communication, and that she does not write any more.
I thought that since he had solved everything so easily, perfectly. For a while it was like what he did, behaving normally. And last week I found out that in the phone she is now recorded under the name of Ruslan. (SMS came, the phone was on the table and I could see the screen.) Her avatar with clouds showed up, but I just wrote it down, like Ruslan, so I did not try to find out anything, it turns out that he not only deceives me, but also does not communicate with her I'm now in the decree, I look normal, I do makeup when he's at home, I'm watching myself, home and the child, I'm interested in his affairs, encourage him, if something is wrong with him I would really like to trust him, but how if he behaves this way? And now I really am does not bother.