one cuss word, just giving a heads up. Read the article and you'll understand why it was added. No malice intended, just strict truths!
Ever came across someone that was so nosy that even ONE word you say and they go running to tell their friends about it? They always wanna know who your man is, who you sleeping with, who’s giving who the D or the P (we’re all adults here so I don’t have to spell it out). If you have someone in your life that’s constantly all up in your inbox or phone asking invasive questions worthy of a human intelligence agency, I would seriously reconsider your friendship with them. I learned the hard way that you can’t be so trusting towards everyone.
You also can’t let everyone around you, because all energy isn’t good energy. Why would you want to be friends with someone that constantly gossips, engages in immature petty games, and putting down others. If they’re doing this to others, guess what? They’re doing the same to you! I know this to be true because I’ve lived with individuals just like that! And all they do is deny, deny, and deny some more.
One of my exes was the worst Human Surveillance Camera I ever met. I would say something in complete confidence, only to run to his girlfriend (our landlord) and cause problems, then claim he didn’t say anything wrong. These are the same people would out a celebrity social media account if the price was right. Trust me when I say this, I’ve seen relationships ruined over nosy people, for no reason other to then be spiteful and lusting after the victim’s partner. I’ve seen jobs, freedom, and money lost because of nosy people. Be careful of whom you allow into your sacred space!
I am in a committed relationship with a caring, compassionate, giving and generous man and that’s all I’m saying about it. Don’t ask me who it is because that’s no one’s business but my own. Way too many talks about every aspect of their private life which is a huge red flag for me. I value privacy over anything. You need to keep 3 things off social media: Your private life, your next moves, and how much money you make. Then you don’t have to worry about human spy cameras creeping around for info because you didn’t give any out in the first place.
I do not and will not volunteer any information about my private life. I learned long ago that once you tell a nosy person one private detail, they hang around like vultures waiting for a piece of carrion. I believe a divine union is sacred and shouldn’t be paraded around for everyone to see. When you voluntarily give up private info for likes, you allow a Human Surveillance Camera to take up space in your life and that’s not the type of person that I would associate with at all.