Let me start this by saying I am a very sexual person. I love sex can't get enough. Now this brings me to a curious point where I find many people in society very sexually oppressed. Society tends to view sex in a certain way therefore many people believe everything else is crazy talk. Couples find themselves closed off with each other about their sexual desires/ fantasy's because they fear judgement. It's a sad thing and it can cause problems in relationships over time. Silly right? Just be open who the hell cares what people think. I personally love bdsm, bondage and many other things in bed I'm not ashamed. Me and my partner are very open and that makes for some fantastic sex. We even enjoy some group fun from time to time.
Now whenever group play is mentioned society goes 'there must be something missing in the relationship to want others'. No while there are some people like that the true swingers will tell you it will strengthen their love / relationship and plus when you go out for a night and have a great time you can come back and bang, you just don't have to care about friends in the room cause they will be playing to.
Now on a side note I've had a few group encounters with new people that were just to funny and terrible all at the same time. One day soon I'll post some of those stories for now I'd love to hear about your personal fantasies and why you haven't made them happen yet!?