Being Vindictive is BAD - It Will Fill Your Heart and Soul with Bitterness - Let me Explain What Happened
Hello Steemians and Dtubers,
So today at work was a very interesting day. As I've always said, I'm a very honest and truthful person so I wanted to tell the truth about the job that I was just offered from the company that I'm working for at present. So I went to the main supervisor on duty and informed him that I would not be able to accept the offer that they gave me because after I did the numbers over the weekend I realize that I would be making less money than I am now and I just couldn't afford for this to happen.
Of course, he was very understanding and completely knew where I was coming from after I explained everything to him. So I handed him the papers from the drug testing facility that I had gone to on Friday, and thank him for all that he has done for me and for the offer of the position at the job. He told me As I was leaving, that he would hold on to the papers, explain to HR what I had decided and that he will get back to me later on during the week to see if he could find a remedy for my situation.
Later on in the day, he had a meeting with the supervisor in my department and the lead person in my department to tell them what he was going to try to do for me. He was going to ask HR if they would be willing to raise my starting salary the little bit that I had asked for so that I can have a permanent job there. Apparently, this didn't go over well with my supervisor who's for some reason doesn't seem to like me and many others that work there at this moment in time. In fact, Miley called me over to explain to me what had happened at the meeting between him and our supervisor after this first meeting.
He first started out with “ Do you want to hear the good news or the bad news first?” Of course, my reply was, that I wanted to hear the good news first so it would make it easier to hear the bad news afterward. so he can for me that the big supervisor of the warehouse was intending to try and get me the extra money I needed in order to work there. This was definitely a positive thing and it shows that I have been doing a good job so far and I was happy about that. Then he went ahead and told me. That our Supervisor was angry about what the big boss had told her in the meeting and that she would be cutting my hours down from 40 to 30 because she was very upset about what she had been told.
This is very vindictive. This is a very bad thing for anybody to do to another person. It causes a lot of harm to people's lives and is very damaging to their self-esteem, to their personality, all can create a lot of problems for them in the very near future. As I explained in the video. With the money I make now, I am just getting by and to make less money would cause me to go further in debt than I already am. so obviously, my supervisor doesn't really care about my situation of making less money that will cause me financial problems up ahead. Because after all that was explained to her in the meeting with the head supervisor, she went ahead and took my hours anyway.
I have said this in many of my videos, “We need to take care of each other better and help each other more” because if we don't we are being very disrespectful to the people around us which is also very bad. Being vindictive or vengeful only feel your heart and soul with a bitterness that you will carry around with you everywhere you go. Even back home where you will take out this bitterness on the people that you love and love you so much. it is a lose-lose situation all the way around. Because I was being truthful with my situation another person decided to be deceptive and vindictive which made them look very bad. they had originally said that I was a great worker and then change their mind after they were told what was going to be done in the meeting between them and the big supervisor at work.
Because of these actions, there will be many negative reactions against them in their life which is very bad because it will cause them much anger All the problems in the near future. but I will continue to be focused and committed for all the amazing people I have in my life. because I know that was their love and support that I will persevere and be successful no matter what anybody else does to me in this world. I am a young strong Warrior and I will continue to be strong for everyone that I care about.
Peace and Godspeed everybody. Remember to love yourself because you deserve it because you are a miracle of life. May every Journey that you venture on have a very successful ending and carry on for generations to come. And if you're going to prosper in anything. Prosper and peace not hate, happiness not anger, and love not hate always.
I always give a big thank you to all the amazing people in my like my beautiful fiance Vanja go always inspires me and motivates me to be truthful and a better person every day. I love her so much. To my amazing children Angeles and David who always Inspire Youth and happiness in me always and to all of my amazing family in Norway, Thailand, Mexico, and here in the United States who always give me all of their love and support. I love all of you so much.
Thank you to all of you #steemians and #dtubers Who also give me all of their love and support every single day with your beautiful comments that really make me feel so wonderful every time I read them. I love you all.
To all of the community of the awesome Discord Channels like @onelovedtube, @helpie, @msp-waves, @dtube and @adsactly for all of your amazing help, friendship, and acceptance and to your wonderful world. I love you all.
And to @dtube and @steemit. Thank you for all of your love and support and for building these amazing Global platforms and awesome tools for all of us to be inspired and go out into the world and create our own success. I love you all.
I’ll talk to you all again soon. Love, @jeronimorubio
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I know where you are coming from. Too many bad bosses act like they are gods.
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Absolutely. They lack people skills in a very bad way. Even though they were given a higher power at the job site. They still need to be dignified. Have a blessed day.
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Thank you.
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Hi
DTube does not work for me, unless the IPFS link allows me to download the vid as an .mp4, but I read your text post.
You must be very good at controlling yourself, for I would have given that person a piece of my mind.
I can see that your way is better, but if I try to hold it in, I will carry that anger and someday I might explode for a small annoyance, making an innocent feel bad. I usually tell the person exactly what I think of them, and then I calm down and offer them excuses as to why they did it and ask whether I had misunderstood.
For some funny reason, those people then become my friends. I do not suggest it would work for everyone, I think it must have a lot to do with our personalities.
If I had a business, I think I would like to employ someone like you and I definitely would not want to employ someone like me.
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I learned many years ago @arthur.grafo that anger will only breed more anger. So I learned to talk about it with people I love so I will release all of the negative energy from within. Have a blessed day.
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I think you covered it all, only thing left is:
Amen 🙏
Sorry you have to deal with that terrible situation but knowing these people are only making their own bed to lay in should bring some comfort. Most people just don’t understand the baggage they choose to carry around with them. Like crabs in a bucket they see one crab almost making an escape and the rest will jump on him pulling him back down into the bucket. I have seen it in action and hatred for another’s success exists in nature. We as humans should be able to do a whole lot better then crabs.
Stay strong, we all know karma is a ..... and it always comes back around!
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