How much time do you spend trying to be the kind of woman you think men want?
If you're like most women, that's a lot. You spend all that time making yourself look sexy and attractive.
All this time fits in as fun, interesting, mundane, and not at all inexpressive. You spend all that time showing him how good you would be for him... How wonderful his future would be if he chose you as the woman next to him...
And it doesn't work. It never works. WHY? Why do you work so hard... And the guy in your life only appreciates you if he notices you? Probably because he's immature, right? He can't recognize a good thing until it's gone. Or maybe... It's because you've been doing all the work for him.
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If he doesn't work for your relationship, he won't value you.
fact
Give a man a college degree and he won't value it as much as if he puts in years of study and effort to get it.
Give a man a perfect girlfriend, and he won't value her as much as if he has to court her for weeks just to leave her to date him. That's why he struggles to get jobs.
But as you've probably already wished...
There is a big problem with playing tough. This strategy stops working when he catches you.
Something happens when guys decide they beat you. It's almost as if they thought: "Game over". Their minds are already on the next challenge. What is happening?!
And how can you stop it from destroying your relationship?
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It's not just you - all women experience it (that's why they ask for help)
Many women give up on love. They never allow themselves to get too close to a man for fear of scaring him. But other women try a different approach. They help. Relationship coach James Bauer is one of the people they turn to.
He pretends a lot of customers come up to him, complaining about guys who were blowing hot and cold. Everything would be going well, and then it was like...
Something would change overnight.
A guy who had been warm, caring, and interested suddenly became aloof. He would have no more time for her. He didn't smile in greeting. He stopped making eye contact. His kisses were brusque. Wanting to help his clients, James investigated.
And what he found made sense of everything. He knew why these men were drifting away. He knew what they needed…and what they weren't getting.
nothing went wrong with these
women. Instead, it all boils down to something he called "Hero's Instinct."
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Most women do something that turns men off... without ever realizing it
One of the most wonderful things about women is how naturally they care.
Look at you. You are always there for your guy. You take care of him. You always make time for him. You would do anything for him.
You never realize that in the process...
You are really taking something away from him. You are taking away his purpose.
He wants to be your hero. He doesn't want you to be his hero.
Men love heroes. See how many grown men are still fascinated by Marvel comics and superhero movies.
Every man on Earth, ever since he was a boy, has dreamed of growing up to be the kind of hero who would save the world - and get the girl at the same time.
Most men fail to reach their saving side of the world in their 9-5 jobs.
The non-compact practices let them steal your corporate ties and take action, revealing their superman side. Maybe they can't save the world. But they can still get a girl.
Catching the girl is a worthy challenge for an average guy with a superhero heart. It takes superhuman confidence. Superhuman charm. Superhuman immunity to pain. Now, all he needs to find is...
A girl who needs a hero. Do you need a hero? Let me guess... That's not you.
You are strong. You are independent. You can fix a leaky faucet. You can drive a manual transmission. You can take care of yourself. You will never make Jerry Maguire's mistake of looking for a man to complete it.
Instead, you have a lot to offer a man. Model. Loving. Giving to a defect. All you want is to find a man who is willing to take everything you have to give.
And that's why heroes aren't showing up in your life. That's why you ended up with so many buyers instead. Guys who take everything you've got and get you high. If you want a hero, you need to announce one. See how.
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3 ways to invite a hero into your life starting today
- Ask a guy for help.
Ask for advice on buying a new computer. Ask him to hear that weird sound that started his car. Ask him to get something from the top shelf. Then give warm thanks with a big smile of thanks. No, that doesn't make you need it. Makes you a woman with room for a man in your life. - Pleasure in male company.
Men love women who appreciate men for being just men. So what if your apartment is a sanctuary for sports? So what if he spends hours in his fantasy football time? So what if your idea of a clean shirt for the one with the least wrinkles? He's a guy. It's okay, it's okay. You don't need him anymore to be like you, because you've got the feminine side of the gender equation covered. - Let him earn your respect.
Superheroes love challenges. They don't want to win a gold medal just for showing up. They don't want their love delivered to them on a plate. They want to earn it. There's one thing they want even more than a woman's undying love: a challenge. So give him opportunities to prove his worth. You don't have to do the job to earn it. Sit back, relax and give him the pleasure of earning your admiration.
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