DO NOT SEARCH FOR MISSION OF OTHER PEOPLE
Somehow, some of us always have a tendency to be a figure who is fond of looking for other people's mistakes. Just look how easy someone demands and criticizes others. Actually it's okay to criticize a friend or anyone, but in conveying criticism, suggestions or a correction, we should still respect the person we criticize. Therefore, in conveying information that is a correction, we should convey it in a good way, friendly and gentle. And never convey in a way that directly corners and blames, but express our opinions in a good, polite and wise way.
Say good or silent. Yes, we as humans have been given a lot of favors by Allah SWT including the pleasure to speak. However, many are wrong to use this blessing. They do not understand that the mouth given by Him should be well preserved and used only for good.
Rasulullah SAW said: "Whoever believes in Allah, let him say good or silent" (Muttafaq 'Alaihi) Then in another hadith mentioned: "Allah SWT gives grace to the people who say good and then get a profit, or silence and get salvation . "(Narrated by Ibnul Mubarak)
Thus, one's tongue is so dangerous that it can bring many faults. Imam Ghazali has counted 20 disasters because tongues include lying, ghibah (talking about others), sheep fighting, false witnesses, false oaths, useless talk, laughing at others, insulting others, finding fault with others, etc. .
In criticizing, we must be wise, we must also focus on the ability of the person we criticize. Look for one advantage in the person. Although it seems in our eyes the ability is small / trivial and we can still be much better than that person. However, try to ask yourself, what if we are in the position of the person we criticize, without considering the slightest, the truth and the ability?
We must also re-examine what our motives are criticizing (ask honestly to ourselves). And ask also what benefits we get after criticizing and fooling others. Because, if the name of the criticism, is just an attempt to do
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