As a son, a man is under the influence of his father throughout his life, either in the sun or in the shadows. The father's influence on the boy is in all aspects. The father is the bridge between the boy and the man, and the source of the power for the son to become a man.
Darwin said: Lucky likes to take care of brave people. Therefore, parents should adopt a "free" approach, instead of participating in everything, but encourage boys to explore more and train them to become men from an early age.
In fact, for boys, a positive and positive father is a good role model to see and touch. Under the influence of the role model, it undoubtedly built a bridge for the boy to the manhood.
There is such a story, we might as well take a look:
One day, the boy picked up an eagle egg, put it in the family's chicken farm, mixed it with the eggs and let the hen hatch. Finally, after a period of incubation, the kitty broke out of the shell. After the birth, the little eagle and the chicks lived happily together, and did not realize the difference between themselves and the chicks.
Day by day, the little eagle has grown up, its body has become larger, and its feathers have become plump. But at this time, Kitty found that the chicks always looked at themselves with strange eyes. So, Kitty thought in his heart: Why do the chicks look at me like this? Am I different from them? This strange feeling continued until the appearance of an eagle.
That day, the eagle flew over the chicken farm with its wings, and the little eagle looked up at its figure, suddenly felt that his wings had an urge to fly, and his mood was instantly excited. Kitty said to himself: "If I could fly like it, that would be great! In this way, I can stay away from this remote and small place, and the mountain will fly on the top of the mountain, overlooking the earth and the world.
Yup! But... but Kitty has never spread his wings, and has no flying experience at all. If you fall from mid-air, won't you lose your life? At this time, Kitty was hesitant and impulsive. After a fierce inner struggle, Kitty decided to take a huge risk and try to fly.
It flapped its wings and tried hard to fly high. OMG! It succeeded! Kitty flew, while looking at the vast world, it felt extremely excited! At this time, Kitty also understood the difference between himself and the chicks. It turned out that he was an eagle.
Kitty's story tells us: Behind every successful person, there is a process from immature to maturity. If you don't let go of everything and fight hard, you will never know what problems you will encounter next. The same is true for educating children. If parents always keep their children close to them and hold them in their hands, the children will be like flowers in a greenhouse that cannot withstand the wind and rain. Only after the child has been baptized by trials and wind and rain, can he spread his wings like an eagle and soar freely in the sky.
Therefore, for the growth of the child, the father should not hold the child for too long or over-control, but learn to let go and let the child truly become a man.