Women's unique advantages of delicacy, flexibility, sensitivity, and resilience have demonstrated their unique coordination capabilities in planning, public relations, and service industries, and have won a place in society. The master Peter Dulac once predicted that knowledge-based work will cross the line of gender, the nature of work will shift from focusing on physical strength to focusing on intelligence, and the advantages of women will become more and more prominent.
Why do women’s advantages become greater and greater, leading to success? Patriarchal expert William Ronald explained: "The father is a medium, and the daughter can understand her own value through the father. The recognition and praise given by the father to the daughter is something other people cannot do, and it is Unable to do it.” It can be seen that fathers play a key role in educating their daughters.
Under the influence of her father's teaching, the representative figure who succeeded in her daughter was Mrs. Thatcher. Margaret Thatcher is the former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom and has been re-elected three times. She is a world-renowned politician, known as the "Iron Lady". During her growth, her father's contribution should not be underestimated.
Margaret (Ms. Thatcher’s name before her marriage)’s father was Roberts, the owner of a grocery store in the small town of Gran Vincent, England. When running this grocery store, my father actively devoted himself to public welfare and church activities, and gained some prestige and appeal in the political circles of this small city.
On Margaret's 5th birthday, her father gave her a special gift. It was a passage. This passage goes like this: "Dear daughter, you have to remember that you have to be assertive in everything, use your brain to judge the right and wrong of things, and don’t blindly listen to the opinions of others. This is a life motto given to you by your father, yes. Dad’s most important birthday gift for you!
"Margaret, my dear daughter, don’t do or think about what others have already done. It’s really normal! Do what you want to do, and persuade people around you to understand you, agree with you, and support You.” In addition to these, the father often instilled Margaret’s thought: “Always sit in the first row.” In life, whether it is taking the bus or listening to a lecture, the father will ask his daughter to sit in the first row. In order to cultivate her leadership temperament.
After learning, when watching her classmates play and frolic freely, Margaret was envious of them, envious of them going to the streets together, playing games together, riding bicycles together, and picnicking on the slopes together on weekends. Finally one day, Margaret couldn't help herself, and told her father about the idea, hoping to get his father's support and have fun with her classmates. However, the facts gave her a heavy blow. Her father sternly said to her: "My dear child, you must have your own opinions! You can't learn to do things just because others are doing. You should do something different and decide for yourself what to do instead of drifting with the flow."
After listening to her father's words, Margaret lowered her head in silence and stopped speaking. Seeing the disappointment on his daughter’s face, the father continued to say to her: "Baby, Dad is not trying to limit your freedom, but to let you have your own judgment and independent thinking. Do you know? Now it is you who are studying The great time of knowledge, if you want to be like ordinary people, addicted to fun, what will you achieve when you grow up? But dad believes in you and believes that you will make the right decision."
At this time, Margaret thought to herself: "Yes, why should I learn from others? I have my own business to do. I haven't finished reading the book I just bought! I should hurry up and study." So, she discarded the idea of wanting to have fun, and instead wandered in the sea of books. Perhaps it was the father’s strict teachings and strict requirements that made an ordinary girl Margaret grow into a slogan.
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If the father wants to have such an independent, independent, self-confident, and positive daughter, he must be cultivated when the child is very young.
A good father can make his daughter truly realize himself, not be affected by the bad atmosphere of the outside world, and not follow the trend, so as to achieve his daughter's brilliant life.