3 simple tips before being a father

Greeting steemians!

INTRODUCTION

Before you become a parent, you will experience that everyone from family members telling you a barrage of advice and every little detail about what to expect when being a father.

Please remember that, before you leap into the world of parenting there are a few things you need to know, so that, you can be better prepared for this amazing step and journey in your life.

I have experience this itself! The preparation of mental and physical it's must. The change of you life that you never expecting before!

The 3 simple tips you can apply before, or if you're plan to be a father:

1. Read Parenting Book

Go walk into the parenting section of any bookstore, and you're sure to find at least one book covering any and every subject that pertains to raising children.

Why, parenting book it's important for me? By reading the parenting book can empowers us to transform our own relationships with our children soon( to determine and understand more about child need).

To atleast know what it’s going to be like and thinking all you need too. To inspiring you or the preparation in how to be a good dad as well.

There are so many type of parenting book. I have my own, here👇

Still kept this book from 2011.

2. Go for vacation as much as you can

Save money, plan you trip and go for holiday now! Enjoy you time together as much as you can. Just you and you wife!

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When you become a parent, you have no more free time, and you cannot not control your schedule. You even cannot plan you next vacation. That's mean you have very little time (for think about eating outside together? movie time, yourself).

My recommend is, learn and practice to do or take lists, so that when you have some free time, you can accomplish as many thing as possible!
Try to do it, because you really need to learn how to become efficient with your time later on (trust me)!

3. Start learn and practice to help you wife

Whether you like it or not, you need to learn how too coock now! Simple recipe i guess, such as chicken soup. Cleaning bedroom, bathroom, living room, and so many thing related surround you house, or even to shopping alone.

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Even your wife will probably choose to be in charge of many baby related things. But, suggest helping without offering or being ask.

You have to understand, your wife is going through some rough times and she needs your help and support more than ever. So prepare for that!

CONCLUSION

Being a father means you not only love someone enough to be totally connected with for the rest of your lives but, you are totally ready to care for a little being together.

Preparation on everything you plan to do is the important key to make it run smooth and completed.