Top 5 parenting tips for young parents or parents to be

in parentingtips •  5 years ago 

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Hamam is a brand that stood the test of time. It represents trust over generations who have been using it as a fight against germs and bacteria that invades our skin. Hamam as a company is also involved in sensitizing women about their strength and their ability to defend themselves against assault. Good parents also protect their children against evil and it will be better if they bring them up in a manner that makes them dignified, independent and truly motivated to move ahead in life. It requires parenting tips for them. There are parents who have a natural bent towards good parenting and they are the role models for other parents.

Being parents is easy but being good parents requires skills, knowledge and a positive attitude. Your child is a future citizen. It is very important to instil in children the attitudes which are healthy and positive traits so that when they grow up, they become responsible individuals. Children may be born with different traits. Even identical twins are different in many ways. As a parent one should identify those traits that should be nurtured and the weaknesses that should be paid attention to. The growing up of a child by both nature and nurture.

You should boost confidence and self-esteem of the child. Children constantly observe you as their parents. Every word that you say and every behaviour you manifest do matter a lot to them. If you praise them for their little achievements, they will be feeling stronger from within. But undue remarks for little mistakes or mischiefs of theirs will sap out the spirit of adventure from them. You should choose what they say, instead of saying what you choose.

You should find your kids doing something good, no matter how trifling it is. You should find something to praise them with every day. Love them and reward them with hugs and pats on their back.

You should desist from displaying anger, sarcasm or indifference. Don’t load your advice with so many words. Keep your comments positive and brief. This will enable them to correct themselves.

Don’t compare your child with other children or with siblings. It may cause inferiority complex in them. Let them know that you love them in spite of their shortcomings, but give them an opportunity to learn and grow. Comparisons might create rivalry among kids that is difficult to remove later in life.

Be watchful the way they use the internet. The Internet can sometimes be more harmful than useful. You should see to it that they don’t become addicted to the screen.

Good parenting requires knowing your child well. It means being gentle and mild in guiding them.

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