Inheld The Future, Exhale The Past

in past •  7 years ago  (edited)

As you all know, we cannot change the past, whatever has happened, it already did. We cannot go back in time and change it to our advantage. I have definitely had experiences where i'm dying to go back and change some things, but the only thing left we all have is the present and the possible future.

The message about Inhaling the future and Exhaling the Past means that anything we have regretted during all this time, we need to let it go and live life peacefully. In other words, it is about forgiving yourself and others.

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Forgiving yourself isn't something that happens overnight. It is one of the hardest things a human being can experience in this life. It is easier to forgive others than forgiving yourself.
But the question now is: How can you forgive others if you don't even forgive yourself?

Interesting question we all have in order to let the bad past go and focus on the future. The negative Past will follow you everywhere you go if you don't let it go. Good and bad things show up over and over again without having a way to control the outcome of things. This is actually how you can evolve spiritually speaking in every aspect of your life.

Let the the negative past go, the moment you do, you will become a better human being.

Many blessings to all.

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You are right @javybar we cannot change the past but we can learn lessons from past and better our future :) Nice thoughts

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Very nice inspirational and motivational post. It is always good to leave your regret behind. Your regret consume your lot of energy and make you depress.
Yes forgiving yourself is the most difficult job to do but everything is possible in this world.lets hope for the best @javyybar

nicely said my friend, thanks :)

You are right dear @javybar I like your this sentence ,Let the the negative past go, the moment you do, you will become a better human being.present and future is our reality we always think our future then our future becomes bright
When we think our past then we live in our past and they keep us down and down

Thanks for another inspirational post dear

you are very welcome :)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Hello @javybar, I'm sorry, a word for me is very big and contains many things,dear javybar, we say we forgive, but when someone does something to you, you never forget it, you see the person and you remember, you do not have the same trust and you ignore.
I think it's better to ignore it.
We must also forgive ourselves, learn from our mistakes and not repeat it, and think before doing and saying something, so we do not have to ask for forgiveness later.
Happy day :)

When you remember without pain, it means you have forgiven to yourself all others. If you still remember with pain, you still have to work on it. Thank you very much :)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

That's a great one and I appreciate your post..and I can say that
There's nothing more regrettable when the past keeps us down and doesn't release us. This keeps us from advancing.

accomplishing the coveted, it takes away our vitality, does not enable us to appreciate life, assemble connections. What's more, it doesn't make a difference how this past appears – brilliant and ruddy or dim and miserable.

For whatever length of time that the past tends to us without further ado, it isn't the past – it is a Packed overwhelming bundle, which we convey all around and which keeps us from taking what life offers us now.

Upvote and resteemit done..

Excellent contribution my friend. The past is not easy to let go, but it's not impossible. :)

@javybar, That's pretty interesting title to discussion. We all live in present tense. We can't go past tense. Well..Past time cannot changeable but our future time can be changer via our thoughts and dreams. Every time past tense more valuable for fix some problems our life and take a idea how about character every persons before giving forgiveness.

Totally agree with you, my friend and we all have a past, but whatever it was, even if very good, the past is not worth living forever! I really liked your words about the fact that you can not forgive others, if you can not forgive yourself and we all need to forgive our mistakes, that we could live happily in the present and strive for an even better future! Thank you
@javybar

That statement is hard to understand but it is very true. Thank you my friend :)

Great post.Loved the amazing words.Really motivating.Yes, my friend we make a lot of mistake in past which we really want to change but we can't.So, there is no need for regreting it.You should move on and think to never repeat them.We may have a bad or good past but we cannot expect your future to be good or bad.You are the only one who can make your future good.We should think about our future because past was,present is and future will.Thanks for sharing it with us.@javybar

Very well said. All we have left is the present and the possibility to change the future for the better with it. Thank you very much :)

a very good post @javybar, your words can always be a zeal for all of us. As you said "we can not change the past, whatever has happened, it already did. We can not go back in time and change it to our advantage". Because in this life, the past is just a memory for us, be it a good or bad memory. But whatever has happened in the past all that to be will be a motivation for us. Because that matters, we must be prepared to face the future to be more successful from the past. Thanks for sharing... :)

I agree with you. We have to overcome the past in order for the past to be a motivation. Thank you

why does the past always come up as we progressively try to forget, is there a sign that we are still constantly punishing ourselves?

well, we have to really want it. We have to really want a change. If we don't have that energy within us we will feel stuck all the time.

the past is the memory, accepting the past as it is a forgiving form of self, I am amazed at you @javybar, your words are very appropriate reality, let's make the past as a stepping stone to reach the dream and ideals

" let's make the past as a stepping stone to reach the dream and ideals" What you said is the main purpose of the post, to do and be better for the future through the present. Thank you very much for your kind words.

This is very beautiful message for living happy life. You are right. We cannot change the past time, just we need to forget past and forgive yourself.

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Very well said my friend :) I was curious to know where you are from.... I'm sometimes in steemit.chat

I live in Canada, i will try to open steemit.chat 🙂

You are 100% correct past is gone. present and future is very important role in our life.
we should stop thinking about past, cause we get nothing from damn past. We should think about our bright incoming past and work hard to become successful in the future.

. If you need to better future want to get experience through our past and do the needful for create netter future. Thanks my dear friend .

you are very welcome my friend :)

wow..dear @javybar its so wise word..in life if we think about past,,its not possible to change past happened occurance,,so we should think about present, for make a great future ,its the time of getting goals..

Totally agree with you. The present is the main key. :)

Well said, my friend @javybar and the ability to forgive others always comes only if we are able to forgive ourselves! You are right, it is sometimes not very easy to forgive your past, but this must be done, because we can not live well in the present and, even more so, strive for a happy future! I join your call to forgive yourself and others, to find peace and move on to your dream!

Very well said my friend. You definitely understood the message big time. It is not an easy task to do, but little bu little we can try. Thank you :)

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I appreciate it very much. I started following you now as well. Looking forward to see often :)

you are most welcome dear

You are 100% correct we should stop thinking about past, cause we get nothing from damn past. We should think about our bright incoming past and work hard to become successful in the future.
Thank You so much for your great motivation.

Great words my friend. I appreciate it

Yes that is 100% true that the time which has been passed will never come back what ever the condition is.
Everyone in this world did some thing wrong he want to change and he repent alot what he did but it is all in vain to it is better to forget about the past and start living in present,

Some mistake don,t in past can,t be changed but you can improve them .

Thanks for sharing this post my friend have a nice day @javybar

"You are already amazing, don't try to be so perfect"
I am choose this words. Really it is true. Interesting to me. ha ha ha.
Thanks for the great post.

I'm glad you liked this quote. It is very true for many. :)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Inhaling future is pretty easy for everyone except exhaling past. there are so many examples all around us which i see people how react and regrets on their past Keep yourself upset by remembering the past. so, in my opinion, this blessing is from God. I've also seen such people who just ignored all things which happened in past they always move forward.

How can you forgive others if you don't even forgive yourself?

i never ever understand this question may be coz i never go through such kinda situation🤨🤔

you are a person with a very bright soul. Some don't have that and it's harder for them. Happy you are good in the inside. :)

Awesome! exactly we should forget a hard time of past, and live happily with the present.

We cant go back to the past to fix the mistakes..

So there is no point of thinking about the past all the time.. Yes we learn from our mistakes but after all life goes on.. No matter what happened in the past, we have to face the future...

Have a good day, man..!

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Very true my friend. It's hard for a lot of people to forget about the past. It requires a lot of inner work, but once you do, the future will look clearer, Thank you my friend :)

The most beautiful quality of human beings in the world is forgiveness.It makes the one great, by bringing him that level of satisfaction of perfection which inlightening his personality. It is the true ornaments for living a happy life. Thanks for sharing such a valuable lesson to the people, you are fantastic my friend. Have a very beautiful morning.

Exactly brilliant considering message given to community through your post @javybar. Probably thinking past history gave bad feeling to us also could be against better feelings. Everything depended our activities. If you need to better future want to get experience through our past and do the needful for create netter future.

I appreciate it :)

Forgiving most appreciated task of humans life. Forgive to others very easy but forgive ourselves very hard task. But everyone need to know less to do every bad activities. Then we put easily forgive to us. We cannot back past also. So try to do better work presently and it will be increase our future.

Forgiving yourself may take some time my friend. Not an easy thing to do if the regret is pretty bad. Time with nature and meditation is always needed for that. Thank you very much

I strongly agree with your opinion @ javybar. As great as we can never go back and change the past. we do not have to regret a failed past. the most important of the past we make experience for a better future.

Very well said my friend :)

We should let go negative past and focus on future because future is most important then past . Past is just dream and present and feature is reality. We should focus on our feature

Lot of greatest thoughts included there @javybar. I completely agree with you friend. I tell you, don't disappointed about our past period. Everything happened for future success. So you get your experience of your past and using it to present and you can see how will grow your future.

what you say makes sense. We learn form the mistakes for a better future. It is just a matter for forgiving to let go :)

That is really intriguing title to discourse.

We as a whole live in current state. We can't go past tense. Well..Past time can't alterable yet our future time can be changer through our considerations and dreams.

Each time past tense more significant for settle a few issues our life and take a thought what about character each individual before giving absolution.

Upvote and resteemit done my dear friend@javybar

I appreciate your opinion and contribution. In fact, I started following you. Looking forward to see you often :)

@javybar I agree with you my friend we can't change our past so why we think about negative past . But we can change our future so we should hard work for feature. Feature is really important .

The past is a memory, we will never be able to reach it back, but the past will continue to fill the mind, let alone it is sweet memories,
Make the past a lesson to reach a brighter future ..

Gold words . The past can not be changed. Going forward, turn around and look at what remains behind, there is no longer time, it is powerless, this is the past, therefore, going forward, create and act so that the unchanged is beautiful for you. Thank you for sharing...:)

Wow, great words, thank you my friend :)

Speaking of the past, sometimes we have a memory in the past that is far more beautiful than the present, and we are eager to have such wonderful times again. But all that is impossible, because the past can never be changed again, because it is just a memory for us. In essence, we must be able to create a new happiness in the future that is far more beautiful than the past. Thank you @javybar

Some good wods and thoughts again my friend, yes exactly past isn't one night work to forgive if we have some regret relating past, the best way to let it go off is to exhale it in open environment. All of the people have made some mistakes in past and couldn't change it but it could be corrected or their impact can be minimized in present and future.

You are totally wright sir @javybar i appricate your thourght its very good thinking..i like your post because its related to life and base of fact ..your post imperesss us and nice lesson..thats great for us..thanks to sharing us wonderful post.

Very happy is useful and inspiring my friend. thank you for your kind words :)

There are times in our lives when we have to realize our past is precisely what it is, and we cannot change it. But we can change the story we tell ourselves about it, and by doing that, we can change the future.

So true! Let the bitter past become an experience to be more careful to move in a glorious future.

What a tremendous motivation 😎👍
Thank you my friend.

you are very welcome :)

Yeah i agree with you @javybar
your speech was awesome it motivated me a lot.

"The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your power. "


Thanks for sharing a amazing motivational article.

Nice quote! :)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

We all have three components of life: the past, the present, the future ... the past - the baggage, the present - the moment, the future - the dream that should not become a mirage, but only a happy reality ... Do not look back, go ahead. Thank you for the interesting message @javybar

Thank you, you are very welcome :)


Forget the past and concentrate to the present. Excellent speech, you are one of the best motivational speaker in this community to me. Always appreciate about your valuable discussion.

100% Appreciated my friend. It is an honor for me. :)

It's fun to read thoroughly!

A thought that is genius and very wise.

Really! No one can change the past. Now what we need to prepare is the future.

However, the past is a very valuable lesson in determining the future. Why? Because many people are successful based on bad experiences in the past.

After all, the past is the determination of the future.

Strongly agree! :)

You are definitely right my friend @javybar. we need to make peace with our past, to focus on our present and get the better future. wish you get your best future. Regard

I appreciate it :)

Inhale the future and exhale the past your wordsare meaning full dear @javybar we should dont care of past just ready for future

If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present

The present makes the future happening. Past is gone. All we have is the present, thank you very much :)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Beautiful reflection, Life is beautiful you to live it to fullness, thanks for sharing, greetings friend!

its only the future that we have got in hands we need to give it a shape :)

Your past is always your past. Even if you forget it, it remembers you.

Thanks my friend for these wonderful themes
It is possible for anyone to change his past or to make him fade from his memory and memory around him if the present contradicts his past in most of its details. However, with any retreat or defeat, or a nap or a blindness, the past will return strongly to his memory and the memory of others

Your post is great I like your post and vlog you are great man we should forget our self and forget others. Thank for shareing

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Not everyone wants to win the world. I think maybe he's lost. He might not think so. Two of them, like the lens of the camera, are watching from two sides.The past will never be forgotten. We should go ahead in the path of education from our past. If we have to forgive ourselves for wrong doing, then we can forgive others. .
Wonderful article dear @javybar

wow!
nice thinking...
interesting post..
thanks for sharing such a great post..

Great post sir @javybar. My thoughts we should always remember our beautiful moments and forget the worst moments. Like if we face a problem and our past was good then we should remember the beautiful moments as a inspiration to get rid of the problem. Past is always edicative for us but we shouldn't forget about future as it's upcoming. So always take the preparation for future as you say 'inhale the future, exhale the past'. Thanks a lot for the motivated content.🌹🌹🌹

wishing your bright future...
go ahead..
content of the post is really good..
like it..👍👍👍👍👍

no doubt but inhaling the future require certain guts and courage which every one cant until they possess a great courageous heart but inhaling future is something really special! and hay @javybar i got some misunderstanding that you oonly make girls as a friend?:P

we should learn from the past.....

yes well said... we should focus on future.. we should not made our past the criteria for success,past is for just a lesson.only we have to gain experiences from the past..because if we think for future then automatically past will become past ,
thanks for sharing

Dear past,thank you for giving me failures.
But i choose to Rise Above.
Thanks a lot to @javybar for this inspiration.

Thats pretty cool to know...

good bye to the old me hello to the new me. I'm focus on my new life n one person that's in my life. I'm leaving the past in the past n focus on the future with the new me n future with the person that I love so much. good bye past hello future. I reborned again !
Great motivation thanks.

wow!
what a post..!
really nice..
I agree with yoy..
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  ·  7 years ago (edited)

You just took a breath. You're about to take another. Inhale, then exhale, then another inhale. In and out. There's a rhythm to your breathing. It's the same with nature.
Btw thanks for your motivational post.
I always apreciate to your post @javybar
Waitting your next post.

Really sir very intresting post .thanks for share

Yes your concept just mind blowing and I appreciate your post and I agree with you but past is past and future is perfect..
So we concern about future and I realize that we will try this any situation and overcome the any problem..
Thanks for sharing this your valuable content in this steemit..
Keep it up..

Upvote and resteemit done sir @javybar

well yes, we can't recall our past, and we can't assume our future,
God has plan the better plan for us, so believe in him.
He will do what is best for you!

Wise words. Letting go makes perfect sense, but sometimes it's so hard to actually do it..

I agree completely though it's difficult at times.
There is a spelling mistake in the title @javybar

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resteem..

There is a beautiful quote, to sum up your whole post

Past is history, Future is mystery. Live now because it's PRESENT.

Troubling memories from the past make may make it hard to live in the present.
Sure, we need to Leave the Past Behind.

If you happt in life you must concentrate your present...you don't look your past and future..this is really a good post..so,thanks for share...

We should all be grateful for our past. The good times and especially the challenging times, because all of it formed who we are today.
Be grateful for the hard times in your past, grateful for the lessons, grateful for the strength it gave you. Then, DECIDE that your FUTURE is more important. Let go of any negativity towards your past, people or events, and FOCUS on building your greatest ever future.

There's nothing worse when the past holds us back and doesn't let us go. This prevents us from moving forward, achieving the desired, it takes away our energy, does not allow us to enjoy life, build relationships. And it does not matter how this past seems – bright and rosy or dark and hopeless. As long as the past cares too much for us here and now, it is not the past – it is a Packed heavy bale, which we carry everywhere and which prevents us from taking what life offers us now.

The Present is good means the past will be good. Lets do good.

Yeah,,you are right,,we can't change the past,,,This is passed,,so we will make our future by planning and hard working,,,
good content,,i like your post and always try to be @upvoted..
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Right,,
A dialogue to give inspiration,,
awesome..
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past is past ...everybody should go ahead for the future

Very true! If we will focus on our future we will have a direction to move with. We should only remember the happy moments from our past and shouldn't think of sad ones. The past is gone, just focus on the present and the future!

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Sir this is for you...

@javybar

That's a great post and I appreciate your post.
Yoiur thinking is right ,sir........

wow this is really amazing

When memories of the past are not allowed to live in the present, it's time to concentrate on the future. Excellent quote to your list turned out :). Good luck to you and Love.

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