Crush or not?

in people •  7 years ago  (edited)

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So you wake up this morning and you see this cute girl or really handsome guy and you seem to like him or her, you see every day but not a chance to say hi, deep within you it like you should just grab him or her and say the heartfelt feeling out, like i really do have a crush on you or something... what happens when you don't get the chance to or the boldness didn't just surface??
For example i have this long time crush, we talk everyday but i still don't have the courage to tell her i am crushing on her, mhen i need your advice now... don't let me down please talk... waiting

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For anyone that wants to be a man in his house must have courage which he has to start building right from his youthful days. The challenge you have is not that you don't have the courage but you are scared of getting a NO AS AN ANSWER. you need to understand that life is filled with trials and errors, success and failures. Just try your best to talk to her not thinking you are going to get a negative answer.
Let me give u a small tip. Whenever you are talking with her, always try to hold her hands, if she allows you all the time and she opens up to you about what is happening to her and her plans about the future, THEN YOU ARE GOOD TO GO BRO. consult me for more advice on relationship

hmmm hmmm that sounded so brave... Like m just gonna hold unto her hands and look into her eyes while we talk???
Damn but what if m blushing so much that i cant talk, i mean i even blush on our chat....
If shes a little secretive about the future plans and not that open does it mean the feeling isnt mutual
???

Well, if you love someone or crush on someone, feel free and courageous enough to tell that special someone how you feel. The answer will either be a yes or a no. The beautiful wife I have today was my crush for about three years. I was never bold enough to tell her how I felt. Until one day my Pastor preached a sermon in church and told us what I am telling you now. Immediately after the service a friend of mine that knew I was crushing on my wife encouraged me to tell her how I feel about her. Behold! From the first day I told her my feelings and intentions she never said no. Six months later we got married. Now we have been married for 6 years with 3 kids 😀. So, soar above your fears and tell him or her how you feel

Wow congratulations man @nathanieloamhen... Sure wasn't easy, so i hope this gets out to all those guys that are doing like me currently. But do i have to wait for my pastor to preach like yours??

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Bro u better act fast before it is too LATE.
Like it happened to this girl back in my SSS days,she was crushing on me and I didn't know buy not until resent dah(around June dis year)she told me everything. I asked her y didn't u tell me dah time, unfortunately for her she was telling me story for the gods, latter she told me it not to late
I told her late for what
She said d relationship now
I told her immediately, friend u know what things have changed... I pray u won't hear dash savage reply

Have dah courage bro,run above ur fear. Its either she tell u yes or no but if she tells u no.give her sum time and den u retry.good thing dont come easy.

Wow... so you're also in support of the boldness something, but is noh easy now.... M working on it though and i hope it works out well... Thanks @dhavey, but your savage sef is brutal, you now called her "friend" sef, anyways i pray she finds another prince charming and i hope mine works out.. I'll definitely let y'all know when it happens.

Lol

She iz my friend...(winks)

Lol...

DO IT!
SAY IT!!
BE BOLD!!!
Before you make that first step, be sure you are sincere within you. Your problem may not be that you are sacred of approaching her but the fact that what if she says "YES" and you ain't ready for commitments. If you know you are ready for commitments, then, do it, say it, be bold.

M Doing it, Saying it and M Bold.... Wow that was really charging, i tried and she said hope ive not started with my silly jokes???

and you relented? I think I have to add another imperative at this point and that is PROVE IT. Let it be convincing and sincere tho!

Lol.. Taken, I am not relenting this time..

Smiles. Goodluck bro

Thanks