A Fool Hates to Be Corrected, But a Wise Person Appreciates It

in philosophy •  7 years ago  (edited)

A wise man appreciates being shown and corrected on their errors, for without criticism of their behavior how would they know they are doing something wrong when they can't see it themselves. If only people would want to be wise.


Do not correct a fool, for he will hate you; correct a wise man, for he will apprecaite you.

Casting aside illusions, deceptions, lies and falsity is empowering. We can be deceived into believing in the accuracy of an idea that is contrary to what actually 'is'. Once we accept these false axioms we develop barriers towards information presented that is not in keeping with what we already consider to be true.

Breaking down the falsity we accept and are attached to can be hard. Admitting wrong is hard for many, but it's required to move forward in the wisdom of knowing what is right. Admitting wrong makes us wiser. To want to be right can drive us to admit when we are wrong.


To admit that you were is to declare that you are wiser now than you were before.

We can then either choose to continue making the same mistakes and continue to be deceived through our ignorance, or we can recognize that we no longer want to be deceived, manipulated and lied to, and instead choose to reconstruct our erroneous perception of reality.

Eventually we need to admit and accept we are wrong about many things. This may require experiencing the negative consequences of our actions by reaping what we sowed through the rhythm of natural law cause and effect. Sometimes we need to suffer and fall into chaos, before we can honestly face the mirror of our actions and rise above them. We need to clean up the confused, clouded and darkened lenses of perceiving reality, and instead see reality with clarity and light of truth.

The desire to learn, especially about our mistakes and wrongs, to care for truth, can only be awakened or kindled once we realize how wrong we are. This awareness allows us to to seek to know. If no one speaks the truth about what is wrong, this process may never happen for many people.


Changing the world begins with the very personal process of changing yourself, the only place you can begin is where you are, and the only time you can begin is always now.

True care/“love” for truth is about facing the beauty and horror, positive and negative, light and dark in the world and in ourselves. Care for truth brings about the inner-work of facing our shadow, darkness, demons and negative.

These are aspects of ourselves that we come to recognize do not suit us in a positive way, and may indeed be causing us or other beings harm and perpetuating self-inflected suffering on a collective scale.

We have to admit we are wrong, fooled, tricked, conned, hoodwinked, bamboozled, uninformed, duped, misled, deceived, manipulated, lied to and mind controlled into negative manifestations in reality. That is the hard work people do not want to be honest about and face with true self-respect, to look back at ourselves again and again in the mirror.

We are responsible for what we do, what actions we take, and the behaviors we consciously or unconsciously engage in. Truth is the path and way to self-transformation. Transmuting, sublimating, purifying, healing, changing, correcting, optimizing, bettering, improving, evolving, embodying and becoming more of those values, foundational principles of truth and morality. Once we face ourselves in honesty and self-respect, we can develop the courage and willpower to change in alignment with what we recognize is right, good and true.


Sometimes you just have to die a little inside in order to be Reborn and Rise again as a Stronger and Wiser version of You!

The shadow inner-work is the phoenix burning up and dying. It is dying inside, in our inner being, that includes part of our ego-personality-identity construct. From those ashes, the phoenix is reborn a new. From the ashes, the phoenix is reconstituted, reconstructed, rebirthed, resurrected and rebuilt anew, changed, better and improved. The false beliefs in lies, deceptions and illusions have been shattered, destroyed and dissolved and not taken back into the reassembly of the new version of you.

This removes the faulty structural components of our self-concept, self-image, and ego-personality-identity construct — the false beliefs, lies and illusions — to build something stronger grounded in truth, love, good, right, etc. We can continually do this, over and over. See the truth about our actions and behaviors and what they actually manifest in reality, stop engaging in foolishness and change for the better towards the wisdom of right-action. This is a lot of continual work that many people only do part of and think that is enough.

The fool doesn't want to be told how they are wrong. They get insulted and offended, as though no one has the right to tell anyone the incorrectness, wrong or falsity they are putting out, are attached to, or are living in their life. Time to wake up, open our eyes, and face ourselves in honestly.

Admit wrong to be more right. No one wants to be wrong, that's how important having right, accurate, correct and true knowledge is. We have to want to know if we are wrong in order to actually be right in what we know or how we live.


Thank you for your time and attention. Peace.


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People who can't admit they are wrong are like an epidemic on humanity. We all have friends and family who refuse to yield, no matter how ridiculous they are being. In the end, is it really their fault? Society breeds this behavior. We have to look to the children to break the cycle.

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Society conditions us how to live. We create the aggregate way of life in society. Catch 22. But it's still the individual that is the root. Healing needs to be done, then society can heal and stop conditioning/influencing further individuals to perpetuate wrong/falsity into existence. What we do is our fault, we are responsible, regardless of influence and conditioning to do it. Society isn't a person that can change it's behavior, but an aggregation of all our behavior. The children are indeed the best way to change things into the future, they are the future.

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

True, there are many variables, but in the end, a person has free will and needs to make the choice to attempt improvement.

Sometime "it's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled" Mark Twain. I find this quote fit in this context. I've to admit sometime it is hard to take criticism but the more I learned the easier it get to handle critism.

Haha, yeah, it's easier to fool people than to get them to understand they are being fooled. We fool ourselves most easily a lot of the time... :/ Wanting to know when we are wrong is a powerful motivator to recognize and accept valid criticism. Some people criticize on bullshit crap that isn't even valid criticism, we have to discern when people are speaking truth or falsity at us too ;)

Always have and always will appreciate the Krnel!
You've been a guiding light all along.
Thankful to have you here.
Two Years Later.
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Thanks, it's good to be appreciated for the things we do :) Take care.

In my country, the ladies always feel offended whenever they are been corrected and when you don't correct them. You will still be blamed for not correcting them.
The fool sees correction as a way of determining their potential.
The wise uses it to extract more knowledge and sees it as learning

LOL... that sucks that those women want to be blind from seeing reality as it is... :/

sometimes it is true, we must fall down first then will rise up and able to stand upright like a giant wall.
we often lie to ourselves with our ignorance, do carelessness for something wrong but we think is right.
we are lulled by the falseness that we make ourselves, somehow we have to fix it again.

in life, there are always people who do not like us. there is always someone who wants to drop us.

sometimes it is true, we must fall down first then will rise up and able to stand upright like a giant wall.

Indeed. Fall to "hell" to rise to "heaven".

Life is a constant exercise of self-improvement. While part of that focus falls squarely on being more educated or moving up in the workplace, we sometimes forget to improve the way we treat ourselves and those around us. In the race to achieve our goals, the idea of being "better" can be lost to ambition and selfishness. The journey to improve your soul and your compassion with yourself and with others

Yes, I agree with this: A Fool Hates to Be Corrected, But Wise People Appreciate It.
For them, Suggestion and criticism is one way that makes us acceptable to others.So we can know what our weaknesses are.Because everyone must have advantages and deficiency

It requires a lot of courage to admit 'I was wrong'. Wise man correct mistakes, blind will defend his stance to the end.

Indeed. I wanted to put the Confucious image, but the alignment was going to be out of wack, so I removed it. Too many images hehe.

Very true. Truth hurts at the beginning but you will feel good that you accepted at the long run

Yes. Hard truths need to be faced. Temporary pain.

Great article
Really the idiot hates and does not want you to be successful
Stay away from the fool until you are successful

Very true :) good post! I was just thinking about something similar earlier today and how I need to surround myself with more positive people. It’s good and important to take things and work from them, rather than get angry and not grow.

Many people view criticism and being shown their wrong as negative, and negative people do that, not positive people.

Truth!!

Nice post @krnel