HAPPY FRIDAY

in photography •  7 years ago 

Sometimes in life we expect a lot from people , some the smallest to the biggest , but why ? They say we come alone and we die alone, so why do we leave little room in the middle to expect something from people . If we have made it there far in life without them , then we don't need them now as well . They seem to let us down a lot of the time when we need them . There's a "I'll be there for you" I feel like in today's century , it has no meaning anymore . I was having a surprise baby shower today and half of my friends did not even show up and had a million excuses , this was a very special day , turned into a bad one from this news . So why do we rely on people or still believe them

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Well I guess another way to look at it is that half of your friends did show up. We can be grateful to our friends that do show up.

I agree with this approach! Thank you David!!

I'm sorry for your disappointment. :-(
And I have a saying on this type of thing that I believe is accurate.
I will share it if you would like me to. Keep in mind, it won't make you feel better.
BTW - great photo for this post!

It's alright :( and yes please do share

OK - the fact is this. We all make time for what is important to us. Whatever it is, whatever is on the top of our priority lists. These things, we all make time for. Whether it is watching a football game, attending our kids function, or drinking beer. So each of us need to look in the mirror every now and then. Check ourselves, what am I making a priority? What is important to me? And if it isn't something that fits our goals, ambitions or what we stand for, maybe we need to make changes. And there is only one person who can truly effect these changes, ourselves.

This sort of made me feel better because sometimes I left little things get to me when I know some people not might be affected by any of this anyways . Sometimes we just need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture . I really appreciate your advice !!

Thank you my wonderful friend Farwa!!

This shot is a perfect match with your words

So sorry friends let you down today, its a sad comment on today's society that everyone seems so busy trying to get by or up in the world that they can not make time to be there for friends special moments

I guess we learn what's important and what's not after so much downfalls

Some people always keep saying i will be there for you.
but in reality when you need them most, there have no show of them.
we need to accept the reality.

Thank you for the wishes.

Sometimes in life we have a lot of friends, with some friends we stay all life, with someone we say just Hello. I think a true friend will come for you anytime to help you or to care for you. In this situati you should have maybe just one friend with you. For you they can be the best friends but for them you are just a friend they can stay with you when they need. dont worry but a true friend will come and you gonna be happy for everymoment with him/her. You should to bealive this happend now for something good

everybody have a excuse when they don't want to help you. sometimes you should do things by your self. until you find a true friend who never let you alone in a good things or bad things.