history when the Prophet was ill and the story of polygamy in Islam

in poligami •  7 years ago  (edited)

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Assalamualaikum ...

This story happened to the Messenger of Allah before death.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)
until his condition is weak.

One day Rasulullah SAW asked Bilal to summon all shbt to the mosque.
Not long ago,
full of mosques with shbt.
They all feel homesick after a long time did not come taushiyah from the Prophet Muhammad SAW.

He sat down on the pulpit.
His face was pale,
to withstand the pain in the dark.

Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O my best friend, I want to ask, have I told you everything,
that Allah is the only God who is worthy of worship? "

All shbt sounded loudly,
"True, O Messenger of Allah,
You have conveyed to us that Allah is the only One worthy of worship. "

Then Rasulullah SAW said:
"Witness God.
Surely I have delivered this mandate to mrk. "

Then the Messenger of Allah said again,
and every what Rasulullah said is always justified by the companions.

Finally came to a question that made the shbt sad and touched.

Rasulullah SAW said:
"Indeed,
I will go to God.
And before I left,
I want to solve all human affairs.
So I want to ask you all.
Do I owe you money?
I want to settle the debt.
I do not want to see God in a state of debt. "

When it all shbt shut up,
and in their hearts say "Where is the Rasoolullah SAW owed us?
We are the ones who are owed to the Messenger of Allah ".

Rasulullah SAW repeated the question three times.

Arriving at a man named UKASYAH,
seorg shbt former thugs before Islam,
he said:

"O Messenger of Allah!
I want to address this problem.
If this is considered a debt,
So I want you to finish it. If not,
then you do not have to do anything ".

Rasulullah SAW said: "Tell me Ukasyah".

Then Ukasyah pn begins to tell:
"I remember when the Uhud war first,
one when you ride a horse,
and thou shalt blow a whip before the horse.
But the whip is not on the back of the horse,
But the tick is hit on my chest,
At that moment I was standing in
behind the horse that you rode on the Messenger of Allah ".

The Mendgr,
Rasulullah SAW said: "Indeed it is a debt O Ukasyah.
Whenever I hit you,
So today I'll accept the same thing. "

In a rather high voice,
Ukasyah said: "Then I want to do it right O Messenger of Allah."

Ukasyah as though not feeling guilty say so.

At that moment some shbt shouted angry at Ukasyah.
"You do not feel the heart of Ukasyah.

Ukasyah ignored it all.
Rasulullah SAW asked Bilal to take a whip at his son Fatimah's house.

Bilal asked for the whip from Fatimah,
Then Fatimah asks: "For what Messenger of Allah asked for this whip, Bilal?"

Bilal sounds sad: "This bowl will be used Ukasyah to hit the Messenger of Allah"

Surprised and wept Fatimah saying:
"Knp Ukasyah to hit my father's Messenger?
My dad was sick,
if you want to hit,
strike me son ".

Bilal explains: "Truly this is the matter between the two monks".

Bilal brought the whip to the mosque and then given to Ukasyah.
After taking whip,
Ukasyah heading to hdpn Rasulullah.

Arrived Abu Bakar stood blocking Ukasyah while
said: "Ukasyah .. if you want to hit,
strike me.
I am the first person to believe in what Rasulullah SAW convey.
I am the sahabtnya when love and sorrow.
If you want to hit,
then strike me ".

Rasulullah SAW: "Sit Abu Bakr.
This is the deal between me and Ukasyah ".

Ukasyah towards the Messenger of Allah.
Then Umar stood up blocking Ukasyah saying:

"Ukasyah ...
if you want to hit,
strike me.
Before that I did not like to grasp the name of Muhammad,
I even intend to hurt him,
that's it.
You can not have anybody who hurt the Prophet Muhammad.
If you dare to hurt the Prophet,
Then pass my body first ... "

Then dijwb by Rasulullah SAW:
"Sit down Omar.
This is the deal between me and Ukasyah ".

Ukasyah towards the Messenger of Allah,
Suddenly stood Ali bin Abu Talib cousin and son-in-law of Rasulullah SAW.

He blocked the Ukasyah saying: "Ukasyah, strike me.
The same blood flowed on my body, O Ukasyah ".

Then dijwb by Rasulullah SAW:
"Sit down, O Ali,
this is the deal between me and Ukasyah ".

Ukasyah is closer to the Messenger of Allah.
Unexpectedly, the two grandsons of the Prophet Muhammad, Hasan and Husen emerged.

Mrk both holds Ukashah tgn while begging.
"O Uncle,
strike us Uncle, our grandfather was sick,
Strike us, O Uncle,
Indeed, we are the grandsons of the Messenger of Allah,
by hitting us really is the same with me

Assalamualaikum...

Kisah ini terjadi pada diri Rasulullah SAW sebelum wafat.
Rasulullah SAW telah jatuh sakit agak lama,
sehingga keadaan beliau sgt lemah.

Pada suatu hari Rasulullah SAW meminta Bilal memanggil semua shbt dtg ke Masjid.
Tidak lama kmdian,
penuhlah Masjid dgn para shbt.
Semuanya merasa rindu setelah agak lama tidak mendpt taushiyah dr Rasulullah SAW.

Beliau duduk dgn lemah di atas mimbar.
Wajahnya terlihat pucat,
menahan sakit yg tgh di deritanya.

Kemudian Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Wahai sahabat2 ku semua. Aku ingin bertanya, apakah telah aku sampaikan semua kpdmu,
bahwa sesungguhnya Allah SWT itu adalah satu2nya Tuhan yg layak di sembah?"

Semua shbt menjwb dgn suara bersmgt,
" Benar wahai Rasulullah,
Engkau telah sampaikan kpd kami bahwa sesungguhnya Allah SWT adalah satu2nya Tuhan yg layak disembah."

Kemudian Rasulullah SAW bersabda:
"Persaksikanlah ya Allah.
Sesungguhnya aku telah menyampaikan amanah ini kpd mrk."

Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda lagi,
dan setiap apa yg Rasulullah sabdakan selalu dibenarkan oleh para sahabat.

Akhirnya sampailah kpd satu pertanyaan yg menjadikan para shbt sedih dan terharu.

Rasulullah SAW bersabda:
"Sesungguhnya,
aku akan pergi menemui Allah.
Dan sblm aku pergi,
aku ingin menyelesaikan segala urusan dgn manusia.
Maka aku ingin bertanya kpd kalian semua.
Adakah aku berhutang kpd kalian?
Aku ingin menyelesaikan hutang tersebut.
Krn aku tidak mahu bertemu dgn Allah dlm keadaan berhutang dgn manusia."

Ketika itu semua shbt diam,
dan dlm hati masing2 berkata "Mana ada Rasullullah SAW berhutang dgn kita?
Kamilah yg byk berhutang kpd Rasulullah".

Rasulullah SAW mengulangi pertanyaan itu sebyk 3 kali.

Tiba2 bangun seorg lelaki yg bernama UKASYAH,
seorg shbt mantan preman sblm masuk Islam,
dia berkata:

"Ya Rasulullah!
Aku ingin sampaikan masalah ini.
Seandainya ini dianggap hutang,
Maka aku minta engkau selesaikan. Seandainya bkn hutang,
maka tidak perlulah engkau berbuat apa2".

Rasulullah SAW berkata: "Sampaikanlah wahai Ukasyah".

Maka Ukasyah pn mulai bercerita:
"Aku masih ingat ketika perang Uhud dulu,
satu ketika engkau menunggang kuda,
lalu engkau pukulkan cemeti ke belakang kuda.
Ttp cemeti tsb tidak kena pada belakang kuda,
Tapi jesteru terkena pada dadaku,
Krn ketika itu aku berdiri di
belakang kuda yg engkau tunggangi wahai Rasulullah".

Mendgr itu,
Rasulullah SAW berkata: "Sesungguhnya itu adalah hutang wahai Ukasyah.
Kalau dulu aku pukul engkau,
Maka hari ini aku akan terima hal yg sama."

Dgn suara yg agak tinggi,
Ukasyah berkata: "Kalau begitu aku ingin segera melakukannya wahai Rasulullah."

Ukasyah seakan2 tidak merasa bersalah mengatakan demikian.

Sdgkan ketika itu sebahagian shbt berteriak marah pd Ukasyah.
"Sungguh engkau tidak berperasaan Ukasyah. bknkah Baginda sdg sakit.

Ukasyah tidak menghiraukan semua itu.
Rasulullah SAW meminta Bilal mengambil cambuk di rumah anaknya Fatimah.

Bilal meminta cambuk itu dari Fatimah,
Kemudian Fatimah bertanya: "Utk apa Rasulullah meminta cambuk ini wahai Bilal?"

Bilal menjwb dgn nada sedih: "Cambuk ini akan digunakan Ukasyah utk memukul Rasulullah"

Terperanjat dan menangis Fatimah seraya berkata:
"Knp Ukasyah hendak pukul ayahku Rasulullah?
Ayahku sdg sakit,
kalau mahu mukul,
pukullah aku anaknya".

Bilal menjwb: "Sesungguhnya ini adalah urusan antara mrk berdua".

Bilal membawa cambuk tersebut ke Masjid lalu diberikan kepada Ukasyah.
Setelah mengambil cambuk,
Ukasyah menuju ke hdpn Rasulullah.

Tiba2 Abu bakar berdiri menghalangi Ukasyah sambil
berkata: "Ukasyah..! kalau kamu hendak memukul,
pukullah aku.
Aku org yg pertama beriman dgn apa yg Rasulullah SAW sampaikan.
Akulah sahabtnya di kala suka dan duka.
Kalau engkau hendak memukul,
maka pukullah aku".

Rasulullah SAW: "Duduklah wahai Abu Bakar.
Ini urusan antara aku dgn Ukasyah".

Ukasyah menuju kehdpn Rasulullah.
Kemudian Umar berdiri menghalangi Ukasyah sambil berkata:

"Ukasyah...
kalau engkau mahu mukul,
pukullah aku.
Dulu mmg aku tidak suka mendgr nama Muhammad,
bahkan aku prnh berniat utk menyakitinya,
itu dulu.
Skrg tidak boleh ada seorg pn yg blh menyakiti Rasulullah Muhammad.
Kalau engkau berani menyakiti Rasulullah,
Maka langkahi dulu mayatku..."

Lalu dijwb oleh Rasulullah SAW:
"Duduklah wahai Umar.
Ini urusan antara aku dgn Ukasyah".

Ukasyah menuju kehdpan Rasulullah,
tiba2 berdiri Ali bin Abu Talib sepupu sekaligus menantu Rasulullah SAW.

Dia menghalangi Ukasyah sambil berkata: "Ukasyah, pukullah aku saja.
Darah yg sama mengalir pada tubuhku ini wahai Ukasyah".

Lalu dijwb oleh Rasulullah SAW:
"Duduklah wahai Ali,
ini urusan antara aku dgn Ukasyah" .

Ukasyah semakin dekat dg Rasulullah.
Tiba2 tanpa disangka, bangkitlah kedua cucu kesygan Rasulullah SAW iaitu Hasan dan Husen.

Mrk berdua memegangi tgn Ukasyah sambil memohon.
"Wahai Paman,
pukullah kami Paman, kakek kami sdg sakit,
Pukullah kami saja wahai Paman,
Sesungguhnya kami ini cucu kesygn Rasulullah,
dgn memukul kami sesungguhnya itu sama dgn menyakIiti kakek kami,
wahai Paman"

Lalu Rasulullah SAW berkata: "Wahai cucu2 kesyganku duduklah kalian.
Ini urusan kakek dgn Paman Ukasyah".

Begitu sampai di tangga mimbar,
dgn lantang Ukasyah berkata:

"Bagaimana aku mahu memukul engkau ya Rasulullah.
Engkau duduk di atas dan aku di bawah.
Kalau engkau mahu aku pukul,
Maka turunlah ke bawah sini."

Rasulullah SAW mmg manusia terbaik.
Kekasih Allah itu meminta bbrp shbt memapahnya ke bawah.
Rasulullah didudukkan pada sebuah kursi,
lalu dgn suara tegas Ukasyah berkata lagi:

"Dulu waktu engkau memukul aku,
aku tidak memakai baju,
Ya Rasulullah"

Para shbt sgt geram mendgr perkataan Ukasyah.
Tanpa ber-lama2 dlm keadaan lemah, Rasulullah membuka bajunya.
Kemudian terlihatlah tubuh Rasulullah yg sgt indah,
sdg bbrp batu terikat di perut Rasulullah pertanda Rasulullah sdg menahan lapar.

Kemudian Rasulullah SAW berkata:
"Wahai Ukasyah,
Segeralah dan jgnlah kamu ber-lebih2an.
Nanti Allah akan murka padamu."

Ukasyah langsung menghambur menuju Rasulullah SAW,
Cambuk di tgnnya ia buang jauh2,
Kemudian ia peluk tubuh Rasulullah SAW seerat2nya.
Sambil menangis se-jadi2nya,

Ukasyah berkata:
"Ya Rasulullah, ampuni aku,
Maafkan aku,
Mana ada manusia yg sanggup menyakiti engkau ya Rasulullah.
Sengaja aku
melakukannya agar aku dpt merapatkan tubuhku dgn tubuhmu.
Karena Engkau pernah mengatakan "Barang siapa kulitnya pernah bersentuhan denganKu diharamkan api neraka atasnya"

Seumur hidupku aku ber-cita2 dpt memelukmu.
Krn sesungguhnya aku tahu bahwa tubuhmu tidak akan dimakan oleh api neraka.

Dan sungguh aku takut dgn api neraka.
Maafkan aku ya Rasulullah..."

Rasulullah SAW dgn senyum berkata:

"Wahai sahabat2ku semua,
kalau kalian ingin melihat ahli Syurga,
Maka lihatlah Ukasyah.."

Semua shbt menitiskan air mata. Kemudian para shbt
bergantian memeluk Rasulullah SAW.

Semoga dgn membaca ini bila ada air mata ini membuktikan kecintaan kita kpd kekasih Allah SWT...

Allahumma sholli 'alaa Muhammad.
Allahumma sholli 'alayhi wassalam...
Semoga Allah SWT selalu meredhai kita semua,
Aamiin...

Ayo kita posting di WA ttg keagungan Rasulullah SAW..

Jgn smpai kisah ini kalah popular dibanding berita yg ada saat ini,
Seluruh dunia mencintai Nabi SAW.

WHY SHOLEH SHOULD HELP THE 'AND POLIGAMI?
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Imam Qurthubi in his interpretation of Jamii 'Li Ahkam The Qur'an explains the reason why people love to fare' or have more than one (polygamy)?

لماذا أهل الاستقامة يحبون تعداد الزواج, قال القرطبي رحمه الله, يقال: "إن كل من كان أتقى فشهوته أشد لأن الذي لا يكون تقيا فإنما يتفرج بالنظر والمس ألا ترى ما روي في الخبر:" العينان تزنيان واليدان تزنيان "فإذا كان فيالنظر والمس نوع من قضاء الشهوة قل الجماع, والمتقي لا ينظر ولا يمس فتكون الشهوة مجتمعة في نفسه فيكون أكثر جماعا .وقال أبو بكر الوراق: كل شهوة تقسي القلب إلا الجماع فإنه يصفي القلب ولهذا كان الأنبياء يفعلون ذلك "انظر تفسير القرطبي (253/5).

Why do people who are stiqomah (sholih) like polygamy? Said Imam Al Qurthubi rahimahullah: Indeed, the righteous are righteous in their lust. Because the innocent will easily whet his orgasm by gazing and touching the haram. As described in the hadith: "two adulterous eyes and adulterous hands" When looking at and touching the transgression of orgasm will result in a little (quality) fasting '. As for the righteous, he will never see (subvert the view of the unlawful) and will not touch the unlawful. This resulted in lust indescribable in him and more wasting jima 'kosher than his wife. Saying Abu Bakr Al Waraq: All orgasm can harden hearts except jima '. Indeed jima 'can soften the heart. That's why the prophets do polygamy and jima '. (Tafsir Al Qurthubi Juz. 5/253)

Wallahu A'lam.

For mothers ... if her husband asked for polygamy, be grateful, he meant to be a shrewd person

Happy endeavor .... With full taqwa.
NEGATIVE EFFECTS DO NOT KNOW '.

وقال محمد بن زكريا من ترك الجماع مدة طويلة ضعفت قوى اعصابه واستد مجارها وتقلص ذكره
قال ورأيت جماعة تركوه لنوع من التفشف فبردت أبدانهم وعسرت حركاتهم ووقعت عليهم كابة بلا سبب وقلت شهواتهم ومضمهم .. إنتهى ...

Muhammad bin Zakaria said: Whosoever abstains from his forehead in a long time, his muscles will become weak, his blood circulation will be blocked and his dzakarnya will shrink ...

Then he also said: "I've seen a group of people abandoning the reason for the avoidance of worldly passions. He soon felt a fever, a difficult move, a sad feeling without knowing the cause, his cheeks became weak and his digestion could not function normally ...

فتزوجوا وجامعوا تصحوا ...

So married and fellowship then you will be healthy

CONFIDENTIAL JIMA '

كان ابن عقيل الحنبلي رحمه الله تعالى يقول:
كنت إذا ستغلقت على مسألة, دعوت زوجتي إلى الفراش, فإذا فرغت من أمرها قمت إلى قراطيس أصب العلم صبا. لأن الجماع يصفى الذهن ويقوى الفهم.

Al-Imam Ibn 'Uqail Al-Hanbali said: "When I was locked up in a matter (knowledge), I called my wife to have sex with me when I finished, then I took the paper and poured it on it (start writing the book) "._ Because Jima 'is able to clear your mind and strengthen your understanding.

وكان الجنيد يقول: أحتاج الى الجماع كماأحتاج الى القوت.فالزوجة على التحقبق قوت وسبب لطهارة القلب. ولذللك أمر رسول الله كل من وقع نظره على إمرأة فتاقت اليها نفسه ان يجامع أهله.

Al-Imam Al-Junaid Al-Baghdadi said: "I need a biological connection as I need food (for intake of body) So a wife does not touch the body, and it becomes a clean cause of heart." _ Therefore Rosulullah ordered every man seeing a woman who made her heart attracted to her, then she should have his wife.

قال الفقهاء: وعلى الرجل ان يشبع إمراته جماعا او وطأ كما يشبعها قوتا.

The Fiqih Experts say: _ "It is mandatory for men to satisfy their wives in biological relationships, as to filling them with food." _

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