Porn, it is one of those topics that nobody wants to talk about yet alone admit. However from my experience and countless online forums. There is a growing problem of young men who have became desensitized to high speed internent porn. Most of these men, such as myself had started off young and early in puberty.
As a result of starting so young. The brain has became rewired to novelty, and fast paced images. These changes are undetected until these young men have a real sexual encounter. For me I was a senior in high school when I had my first sexual encounter.
During my first sexual encounter I had an issue getting my "third leg" erect. I knew something was wrong because my girlfriend at the time was very attractive and ready. So we decided to have sex one night but eventually had to stop as I wasn't getting erect even though I was very ready and was extremely embarrased I couldn't get erect for her. At the time I had no idea I became desensitized from the porn. I had blamed it on being nervous and perhaps thought I had performance issues.
So I went to the Dr. to see if anything was wrong with me and all tests came back fine. He prescribed me Cialis. Here I am, a teenager and I am being prescribed Cialis and my penis will not get erect and I have an extremely beautiful girlfriend.
So we attempted again this time I got erect but it wasn't a full erection maybe 85% erect and even though it felt good, there was a slight numb feeling and I couldn't ejaculate.
She eventually broke up with me after a few months and couldn't help but feel it was my fault. I already wasn't the most popular guy among the ladies. I hated myself and I lost a girl I thought I'd never have a chance with. My heart was ripped out of my ass.
After a few months of deep depression and anger. I eventually found a website called your brain on porn. I found out that constant viewing and masturbation of porn especially at a young age can change the brain and desensitize you to real sex.
However even with that knowledge me and many young men did not heed the advice. As porn is very addictive. It has the same effect as crack cocaine except, it is free,discrete and available 24/7. Despite what popular media will have you believe, porn is very bad for your health and well being.
Porn does have withdraw effects as with any addiction and does effect most people in the process of quiting it. I am one with withdraw effects. Porn changes the brain and when you suddenly stop a familiar function to the brain it will make you know your doing it and get you back to doing it as soon as possible.
I have experienced lonelyness, anxiety, anger and the flat line (complete loss of feeling or sexual desire) completly frightening and alien. There is hope at the end of the road and I may not be very religous or superstitous but if there is demons. Then porn would be a good way to channel themselves into your soul. Quit porn and even if you aren't lucky with the women. Retaining your sexual energy improves your life. As sexual energy is a creative force (it makes babies after all). You can direct that energy into creating other useful outlets.
Conclusion: I believe with the rise of feminism and social media driving the egos of females. More men will find it harder and harder to have sex or long lasting relationshits..er I mean relationships. With technology advancing at a faster pace. The technology for better porn experience will be becoming ever more alluring to men, especially young men beginning puberty. It is important to retain your semen and sexual energy. Every time you ejaculate you lose vitality and essential vitamines and your creative, driving force as a man.
very true
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full described post , thanks for sharing your life experiences with us , I followed you , if you like check my posts too , I am a musician. thanks
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Yeah I didn't want to get into full detail haha. But I wanted to share this growing issue. Many may be lost and not know what to do. Porn is nasty. Will do man. Thanks!
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