Etiquette is important in all walks of life. It is a matter of personal choice, but whether we like it or not, good etiquette does play an important role in our lives. It is an unfortunate fact that it is sometimes necessary to resort to using "manners" to get through others. The family dog does his or her best to obey its master, but every dog is different, and when you are around others, you need to use good manners regardless of who they are. Some people believe that etiquette isn't really required, but the truth is that it is crucial. Following are a few reasons why etiquette is so important.
First, etiquette shows others that you value them, their opinions, and their feelings. Etiquette says: Treat others as you would like to be treated. Don't put others in your way. Believe in the idea of a good touch, even if you don't feel like touching them back at the moment. When you touch someone, even if you think you are being kind, you are sending the message that you are available and willing to help. This could be the start of an embarrassing situation, but it doesn't have to be if you know what you are doing.
It establishes a bond between you and your family. Good etiquette makes it easier for people to open up to you, share, and listen. If you aren't sure how to do something, ask. Don't take action until you have asked to see what they have to say first.
It builds a sense of community. Our society is made up of small families. Those families interact frequently, and when those families need help, they usually reach out to each other. The same goes for those of us in business. When you help others in your business by being a model of good social etiquette, you will find that your clients will be more comfortable working with you, and they will be more open to your company as well.
Many times we forget that etiquette is about keeping a good impression on others. In addition to our own appearance, it is important to keep a good impression on everyone around us. If you don't practice good etiquette, your family and friends might think less of you, and that can directly impact your relationship with them.
So, there are many reasons to learn and practice good manners. Children are part of our society, and we want them to be respectful as we raise them. In order to raise children to be respectful, you must do what you can to instill it in them from a very young age. By not knowing and understanding how to do this, however, you will find that not knowing and understanding good etiquette is leaving your children at home to fend for themselves, and that's not a good situation for any child.