Facebook And Other Corporations Routinely Violate Our Privacy

in privacy •  8 years ago  (edited)

I read this post by @ash, and it reminded me of an experience I had with Facebook that I will never forget. This is one of the many reasons that we absolutely need Steemit, to free us from the tentacles of corporate social media.

I was dating a woman for a few years, and it was pretty serious. We lived together and all aspects of our lives became intertwined in ways that took some time to unravel when we eventually broke up. I'm sure many can relate with that... Adulting is kind of hard some times.


Broken Heart Grunge by Nicolas Raymond, on Flickr

One of the things that lingered unresolved for a while was my cell phone. When we were together, it made the most sense to share a cell phone plan. For whatever reason, I ended up switching over to her plan.

It really wasn't a big deal... until we broke up, and I couldn't just leave her plan without paying an early termination fee. It would have been best for both of us to just move on with our lives, but Verizon was having none of that.

So I deposited money to her checking account each month, for the six months, year, or however long it was until it ran out. We were both on the same page that when the time came she would drop me from her plan and that would be that.

I knew that it was getting close to the time when this would happen, and I was waiting for her to call or email me telling me that she was about to go ahead and drop me... but it turns out she didn't feel like contacting me when the time came.

How did I find out?

I got a Facebook message, asking me to update my cell phone.

What?!

I had every kind of mobile alert and notification turned off. There was no possible situation that would have come up where Facebook would have legitimately tried to message me via my cell phone and found it to be out of service.

As a matter of fact, I used the phone throughout the morning. Facebook messaged me in the afternoon.

Before I knew that my cell phone service was discontinued, Facebook did!

At that point it became clear to me that there is an inappropriate sharing of information between Verizon and Facebook. I can't imagine that this is the only privacy violation that they engage in.

I would strongly advise everybody to limit what they share with Facebook. There is no telling what they or any other corporation will do with your information. Privacy is not some lofty ideal... it is something that we all must safeguard at all times.

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  ·  8 years ago (edited)

I was an early user of Facebook and it was fun for some time. Later I deleted my account when it wasn't fun anymore. Since then it's become a disgusting borderline-compulsory (for mainstream-identified people) shitshow.

They have no respect for privacy, they will exploit any bit of information they can gather about you to make a profit from it. Every data point you give them, or more often they forcibly collect (even from non-fb-users) is a dollar sign to them.

It's tough. Most users don't realize how they are making money for the company, and signing their copyrights away as well. When it could be the OTHER way around....

The tipping point for me... when it became not fun, was when my grandmother joined. It was cool for a while, and it was sweet that she liked every one of my posts even if I knew she disagreed with a lot of what I was posting. But then one day when I saw her she mentioned some "language" that I used when commenting on a friend's post. Like... I don't even just have to be careful about my own posts... I can't even swear on my friends posts because everyone I know can see it? FUCK THAT

Ah yes. Other people adding non-peers to their "friends" list on Facebook is what really did the fun in. I pretty much stuck to only adding friends, not even acquaintances. When a friend got mad at me for something I posted because their little shit cousin read it and told his mommy, I knew it wouldn't last.

Kind of funny that we're coming at the same thing from opposite directions. :)

Eventually parents, grandparents, and bosses wanted to use Facebook... you either risked alienating people or letting them crash the party. But once they were there, they did kind of put a damper on things.

Though I'd rather have a shitty Facebook with my grandma liking everything I did than some super fun Facebook without her unconditional support and love... But what can I say. I love my grandma.

Scary situaton. good advice to use in all aspects of your life. keep it to yourself

The latest stuff with WhatsApp just highlights these issues.

The problem is the price of information, the government pays billions for it. We are an oligarchy and we must fight that directly to fix this problem.

I feel that steemit will soon have a separate feed like Facebook where we can post more personal pictures of family and friends and other things we may not wish to share as blog posts. Soon the silhouette with the username will be a real picture I think.

Its gonna be fun bro.

That would be hard to accomplish without robust blockchain privacy features.

It could be public as well then and people could choose to post things and show interests that may not be something they wish to blog about. I like how there are no friend requests, but that may also prevent some people from posting certain content.

Thanks for wighing in @pfunk that is definitely a needed measure if steemit were to allow there to be private pages on the blockchain