When you don't need to prove yourself.

Look at people during the day and read at night.
Improving thinking and adjusting mentality are two compulsory courses in life.
Peace of mind, deep thinking.
Improving thinking and adjusting mentality are two compulsory courses in life.
The essence of what we say about love is not to love each other, but to meet our own needs.
The essence of intimacy is to be yourself.
A woman, if she is an ordinary woman, has the way of living of an ordinary woman, if the condition of this girl is very good, or she is good-looking, or famous, or her family background is good, or the model wipes her ass well, in a word, When she is out of her class, she is outstanding. When she is particularly good, she will have strange things. When a man has some good conditions, he will forget himself, he will be arrogant, and he will be proud. But the degree of self-expansion may only be twice or twice, but for a woman, when she has a chance to get ahead, when she is good, she is by no means twice as inflated as herself. She could be ten times, she could be fifteen times. We see these sexy women. In a daze.
Betty students almost every exam is the first grade, the school captain, the school is famous, almost omnipotent beautiful girl. Three years after leaving primary school, I was lucky enough to read several novels and essays written by this excellent girl in the sixth grade. Delicate strokes, gentle style of writing, sincere feelings, rich imagination, each text, are emitting talented women's unique thinking and rich inner world.

When you don't need to prove yourself.
Three years have passed in a flash, and it is time for the high school entrance examination. The examination is like an invisible net, covering the heart of Betty students, she is sometimes confident, sometimes anxious; sometimes smiling, sometimes distressing; sometimes quiet, sometimes manic; three years of junior high school examination, so that she almost to the brink of collapse. So she walked out of the house and out of the battlefield. Looking at the ground under my feet, a little dizzy.
A few minutes later, she called me.
It turns out that Betty's parents' expectations of their children's good grades are her greatest pressure. In the recent exam ranking, Betty stepped back a few places. She couldn't figure it out anyway. Why did she work so hard and go back? ! That can-"prove yourself" the result of the effort, like a serpent devour her everything. When Miss Li joked, "you're not going to die because of this little thing, are you?" Unexpectedly, she immediately burst out crying: yes, if your phone did not get through, the only thing I want to do at the moment is:.
……. . Half an hour later, Betty dried her tears and easily returned to her warm home, which she had just called the second Battlefield.
Put the phone down. I was thinking. .
Betty confused smile, pure eyes, when can you bloom gracefully when you do not need to prove yourself? When you don't need to prove yourself.

You don't have to prove yourself. No tree needs to prove it's a tree.
What do you want to prove that your thighs are more like thighs than others, or that you are more human than others, or that your parents are more likely to have children than others? Maybe you want to prove that your head is smarter than others, or that you are more capable than others? They were originally works of God, could have exuded natural qualities, could have been full of beauty.
Unfortunately, when a beautiful woman tries to prove her beauty, it is ugly;
When a man tries to show his cleverness, what he does is stupid;
When a person always wants to prove himself, but the heart can never touch, can not find themselves.
Remember:
The essence of what we say about love is not to love each other, but to meet our own needs.
The essence of intimacy is to be yourself.
When you don't need to prove yourself.

This sentence, how to let those lost people understand, how many lives innocent there, with their limited poor wisdom as a treasure, but do not know how to receive God's inherent charm, beauty.
It is only when you no longer prove yourself that the glory of God is revealed through you, and only when you firmly believe that God's creation is the most perfect work, can you present yourself truly, sincerely and openly. In order to have the opportunity to see the inner wisdom and treasure, like a spring.
From the inside out of the confidence, will be full of your eyes and movements. At that time, you intoxicated yourself. Because you met yourself, met the work of God.
This door is so mysterious that so many people can't peep for the rest of their lives. That kind of original self-confidence is drowned by the mundane, in exchange for, is through the evaluation of others to feed their own lack.
Those who will not love and cannot receive sincere love will fall into this strange cycle of life. Therefore, lack of internal self-confidence, they can not really know how to appreciate themselves.
Love yourself, not to wear the most beautiful clothes (it is none of your business), not to wear the most beautiful jewelry, not to eat the best food, not to stay in the most luxurious hotel, not to drive the best car.
Those are toys. They're all your makeup.
Love yourself comes from being with yourself, from your total appreciation, total love, total understanding, and total acceptance.

When you don't need to prove yourself.
The essence of love is total acceptance. Without this foundation, love can never enter your heart, you are always like a ship without sails, can not find belonging.
Go back to where you came from before you can start from there.
Just let go, just calmly present, just send their own eyes to each other's eyes, just like candlelight, so shining can contribute to the light. Just listen with joy and enjoy it with all your heart. Just let the mind feel, and with that beating rhythm, you can capture God's Zen machine.
But are you aware of your self-proof? When you realize it, you know you don't need to prove it.
When you stop proving yourself, divinity comes out and beauty blossoms.
When you stop proving yourself, divinity appears.
Why?
Because you are God! The masterpiece of God! .