Dealing with toxic people has become one of the greatest responsibilities in our life. But why we have to deal with them? At first, it’s not so easy to identify one. And especially when you are a person like me who doesn’t want to think of bad about people around, then it’s the most difficult thing to do. But these people are just the biggest headaches in life that we all need to get rid of. Here are some ways to recognize toxic people around us.
They are manipulative: This type of people make others do what they want. They are the biggest manipulators ever. Their only target is to use others for their own goals. They don’t sympathize. They just use.
Judgmental: Yeah, they are! They are very self-centred and never think that they can make mistakes. They will always criticize people around them.
They don’t apologize: And why would they? If they don’t see any flaw in them, why would they apologize? Anything happens; the other people are at fault. Sometimes toxics even try to label them as victims to get empathy from others.
Never listen to others: It’s not their thing. People around them would listen to them, they won’t. They’re not the kind of person you can trust or rely on if you have a problem because they're too busy talking about theirs forever.
Pessimistic: Always finding faults. The worst trait ever. They always see the negative sides of everything.
How to get rid of them:
After identifying them, it’s time to get rid of. You don’t need anyone’s permission, you just need to improve your self-esteem. Remember, there’s no need for anyone’s appraisal to value yourself. There are a lot of people who would appreciate you for your good deeds. If anyone doesn’t, just forget about them. You can’t make everyone happy and it’s not your duty. You must exercise mindfulness. Observe your thoughts and feelings and accept them without judging. Mingle with positive people around you who teach you things in life and make you happy. Toxics will always make you negative. Your own strength will keep you away from them.
So, let’s start from today. Identify toxic people and get rid of them forever. Happy Journey.
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Surely i have such friends, but i didn't have bad thoughts about them. I think it's the right time to get rid of them, because what i have noticed about them is that, they are too greedy and unemotional.
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Yeah, we all have such friends around us! some of them are even close! It's really dangerous to keep them with us. For our own good, we need to get rid of them.
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Yes good writing style. Topic is also interesting related to people. Thanks for share with us. This is very deep information. Well wish you to grow
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Thank you dear! I have been fond of writing psychology n personal development for a long time now. Um glad that you liked it :D
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