Wow, it's as if I'm reading my own story. Mainly the first fear has been bothering me for years and years and I've only recently realised that it actually was. I always thought I didn't care what others thought it me, yet I did everything I could to try to prevent anyone from thinking negatively about me. It had put so much strain on me and I only started realising it when it had become too much already. I'm still struggling with it on a daily basis but it's getting better and seeing I'm not the only one sure helps. Thanks for your article. :)