Success doesn 't come easy for anybody.
If it was, then everyone would be at the top 1% of their game.
In the end, it all comes down to certain things and habits we do that pushes us further rather than closer from our goals.
IT 'S ALL ABOUT THE MINDSET
This concept is pretty obvious, but you might be surprised about what is about to be said next.
While doing some research recently, I found out about two distinct types of mindset: the fixed mindset and the growth mindset. Depending on which one you use to shape your goals, the outcome will be completely different.
It 's important to take into account that there is a majority of people who are not even aware of the mindset they are using, and as to why it stands in the way of their goals.
- FIXED MINDSET : I could explain this one by comparing it to having a hand of cards.
Some people think they carry a royal flush, while some others think of themselves as a one-pair hand.
And then, you might wonder where Im going with this. It means that individuals who have a fixed mindset, see their personality traits, abilities, and qualities as things they CAN 'T change about themselves. It 's either you 're good at something or you 're not, and you can 't do anything about it.
On one hand, the ones that praise themselves into thinking they are "intelligent" or " good role models", believe that it is something that is FIXED; the result of talent and not effort.
So all this time, you see them talking about their strenghts, but in no way, you see them developping their so-praised ability.
The same principle applies for the ones who use their fixed mindset against themselves. They believe that failure is a part of them they can 't change. They use very negative words to describe their inability to succeed. Also, they tend to rationalize their failures by using excuses.
"I can 't understand maths."
"If I had studied 3 mores hours, I could have gotten the passing grade." (From being a student, I heard this one way too many times!)
- GROWTH MINDSET : Individuals with this type of mindset are strong believers that we can all succeed and be good at things, by developping our ablities with the use of ACTIONS and EFFORTS. They see each failure as a new opportunity to succeed and to work on it. They focus on the PROGRESS and not the OUTCOME.
What 's important to realize, is that we can all achieve our deepest desires and dreams.
Each one of us.
Shifting your perspective will bring so much light and positivity into your journey.
To be successful and great at something, you have to start somewhere. And be able to fail and not be labeled by it and let it define you.
EXCUSES!!!
This one has to be the one I hate the most.
We love to blame our circumstances.
I could name all the excuses I hear the most often, but the one that falls first on the list would definitely be the "I don 't have time" one. First things first, I want to start by saying that everyone has 24 hours in a day. Bill Gates found the time. So why can 't you?
And then, it gets worse because we start to justify ourselves: ' 'I have a full-time job, responsibilities, kids, boyfriend....''
This is what 's stopping you. There is no such thing as putting the blame on our conditions and our ''personal case''.
We always think we are the exception to the rule. "No but with me, its different...."
We are not.
This is where picking the right mindset is a game changer.
There is ALWAYS a way to get around things that are stopping you from succeeding.
Whether it is a question of time, money, lack of experience, distractions, background, name it...
There is always a way.
There 's no such thing as being lucky.
You are the creator of your own luck.
Thank you guys for reading!
Or as I would say ➜ "Stop dreaming, start doing''
great article,really motivational :) @steemityourway
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Awww you make my day!😭😍 thank you so much! Your kind words go straight to my heart 💙 @lordcarlo297
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your welcome :)
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You da best Carlito💜🙈❤️
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Very good explanation of the fixed vs growth mindset :)
It is definitely way better to be growth oriented and you will meet your goal if you keep trying. I like to say when I am doing something that I am not good at that I will "fail my way to the top". lol... its true though. If I don't give up, I will get there eventually.
I love seeing warriorbrina come out! It's awesome to see that fire in your eyes and belly. So many people will try and just give up and not push through the hard times. You push through the hard times with a smile on your face. 😁
And yes, pas d'excuses!
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Wow you’re the best I swear!😍😍
And the “I will fail my way to the top” absolutely love that one! Will definitely have to add it to my quotes collection:)
You’re the sweetest!!! Thank you so much Gab!😘💙🖤
Tu es trop adorable :) pas d’excuses, juste des solutions 😉
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Persistence is key ;)
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You said it all babe 🙈👌🏻
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Gotta speak nothing, but truth ya tho 👌🏻😏
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Hehe! Are you really the guy you claim being in your bio?;)
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I'm guessing that sport taught you take actions and going beyond your limits instead of finding excuses? It's a great approach to life and you will achieve a lot 🤙😎
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You have such a positive spirit! Thanks so much you have no idea how your kind words are empowering to me! Thanks hun!!!:) 💕
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Happty to hear that! Don't want to say like an "old dad sharing stories from youth", but I did a sport myself for 9 years and this is exactly one of the things it taught me for life :)
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Great post and I couldn't agree more that you need to train like a champion! That is how I do it....Keep Steeming.
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That's it haha champion vibe 😏 Thanks so much! 😭💗 you look like the lmfao guy on ur picture haha love it!!!
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Haha a lot people say I look like that picture lmao. That is my crypto twin... Keep steeming and spreading the word about cryptos gorgeous. I will start posting some of my champion work out vids. Keep it up!
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Ouhhhh will I get to see your mask fall off then 😳😏 thanks so much! REALLY looking forward to see these. I wanna squat with Redfoo 😍😏 @evanrvoss
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Great "kick-in-the-butt" motivational post! Time managment is really crucial and a skill one should master.
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Awwww thanks Nick!!! It is !!! 👌🏻😏
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Nice post!
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Thanks chocolate 🍫 😏😏🙊
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That concept applies in all fields. You've got to work for success. Like, I can see you worked a lot to achieve that zero figure. I know what discipline and patience it takes to achieve that.
You look beautiful. Must say you have maintained yourself quite well :D
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Wow you're such a sweetheart dude! Thanks so much you're the best👌🏻And I agree 100%!! 😘
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Great post, I can see by that nice figure you are managing your time well. Keep up the great work on mind and body because those are the most important. You look great, keep rockin it.
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Oh my god you are spoiling me today with your niceness!!!!😭😘😘 thank you so much! I sincerely wish people were half as nice as you are! Not everyone had the same viewpoint on that picture but it's uplifting people like you that help improve this world! You're awesome💕💕😘
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Nice abs😀 I had some once too 😂
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Haha awww thanks bae! Oh ya did you? 🍫 😏👌🏻 Do you want to get em back😏🙊 show me what you got!!!!🙈😘 @xaero1
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Hehehe....... thanks ;). Cool article too😀
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Thanks so much sweetheart! Hit me up when you're up with that challenge tho 😏😍 #letsseewhocangetthe6packfaster 😂😂😎 @xaero1
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thanks for this! Really motivational! :)
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You're so nice Karen! Thanks so much pretty girl 💞😘 @karensuestudios
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right back at you! 😘
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💜💜💜💜
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Hey girlfran... I forget if I asked you... but Do you mind doing me a big favor and upvoting my logo in the comment section for a competition I entered in? I am 2 upvotes from winning. It would help me out so much! And I would really appreciate it. Here is the link https://steemit.com/creativity/@surfermarly/calling-for-graphic-designers-on-steemit-who-wants-to-create-a-logo-for-surfermarly-s-blog-design-contest-rewarded-with-250-sbd
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Got ya😏 ! Best of luck to you!💫💜
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thanks Chica! I'm currently in 1st place! Thanks again for all your support! :)
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Awwww no way thats awesome ya your design is so nice!!! I hope you win!;)
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hola amigo espero estes muy bien saludos Dios te bendiga buen post me gustaria charlar contigo a traves de Wapsap para que me des mas ideas de como trabajar desde aca de mi casa que otros metodos hay este es mi numero saludos +5804267142425 jejeje aqui en venezuela toca hacer de todo mientras no nos restrinjan el internet aunque aca esta lento por ello no he podido contestar tus correos abrazos amigo..
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Pero que eres? No hablo espagñol...
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steemyourway i want to cash out please guide me
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I'm sorry my friend I don't cash out
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:(
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