Middle-aged men are most afraid of greasy and women are most afraid of being cheap and cheap. Whether a woman is living more and more advanced or cheaper we can see these five aspects.
Psychology signs of falling
- spend a lot of time gossip people cloud
Gossip is the nature of mankind. But when you spend most of your life using gossip paying attention to other people's things and forgetting yourself in a sense you start to become cheap and insignificant.
Really more and more valuable women will pay attention to their own time spend time on the people they care most the things they want to do most make their life full and busy and let them continue to add value this is the most they treat life. Good attitude.
Where is your time spent and where is your value? A person's view of time can actually reflect one's values. When you spend more time wasting things on others it will make you feel ridiculous. Without anger and vitality it loses the motivation and courage to move forward.
- often tangled for small things
Psychology has found that women are more likely to be troubled and distracted by trivial matters than men which can greatly reduce women's happiness. Women are naturally sensitive and can easily be touched by people and things around them making them unhappy all day. If women often struggle with small things not only will their own patterns become narrower but they will often forget what their self-life goals are.
In one class a teacher was telling his students about a fable story three hounds chased a groundhog and the groundhog drilled into a tree hole. This tree hole has only one exit but in a short while a rabbit is drilled from the tree hole. The rabbit ran forward quickly and climbed a big tree. The rabbit was in the tree but it didn't stand in the middle of the warehouse. It fell and stunned the three hounds that were looking up. Finally the rabbit escaped.
After the story was over the teacher asked his students "Is there any problem with this story?" Someone said "The rabbit won't climb the tree." "A rabbit can't stun three dogs at the same time." "And what? The teacher continued to ask. Until no one answered the teacher asked everyone did you forget what the real goal was where the groundhog went the goal of the hound chasing was the groundhog and not the other but few people asked where the groundhog went. .
It is very easy for a woman to tangled up for small things or to forget what we really want. When we always remember what the goal of life is it is the best light to lead us to our destination and we will not become cheap.
- give up self-request
Women who really live beautifully are all working hard on themselves. This self-requirement is actually the emphasis on physical health. When a woman does not ask for herself it is actually the beginning of degeneration.
When a woman no longer pays attention to modifying her face every day when she is unkempt; when a woman no longer pays attention to her body shape eating junk food; when a woman no longer pays attention to her health often staying up late these vices bring harm to the body. And destroying is also the key to women's lack of spirit but also easier for women to age early resulting in various diseases.
- always watching idol drama
Idol dramas have always belonged to the soap opera plot. When women are young they have a special liking for idol drama. But if the mind has been stuck in the level of idol drama then it is conceivable that this mind has not been growing and evolving.
Women need to keep up with the times and need to continue to learn to stay competitive. With the increase of age men like women slowly turn to depth and connotation rather than completely superficial this is how many years Lin Huiyin has been the goddess of many people it is precisely the intellectual temperament of the goddess always makes men feel To the endless charm.
Women need to seize the opportunity to learn and temper themselves. They are all important ways to help us improve ourselves. What is more important is to let ourselves find a hope and strength of life.
- pinning your hopes on men
The fifth sign that women live cheap is to pin their hopes on men. Pinning your hopes on men is the root of love disappointment. I still remember that the root cause of the marriage failure of "My First Half of Life" was that she had pinned her life on her husband. She spent a lot of time every day investigating her husband’s whereabouts distrusting her husband and making a lot of noise in his company. The performance of a woman’s self-defeating body.
A woman must first live herself and she has a kind of temper and peace with her husband. The most taboo of love is the loss of self. In fact a full-time wife is not a terrible career. The terrible full-time wife has lost many women to this profession. This is the root cause of women's lack of value.
In general the cheapness and degeneration of a woman is closely related to her behavior. When a woman loses her self and pin her hopes on a man it is often the beginning of disappointment in marriage. When a woman always watches an idol drama her mental level is low. It is possible to lose self-reflection ability;
When a woman is self-deprecating overeating and giving up self-management the woman’s mental outlook is ruined; when a woman spends a lot of time gossip for a trivial matter her life pattern is small and these five signs are that they live. The roots of cheap and fallen.
A truly valuable woman will always know who she is no matter what she does she will not be humble. No matter where you are you believe that you are attractive and worthy of love. This is why they are getting more and more noble.