DECLARATION
Watch at least for one day, as your mind tries to paddle against the current. You offer something, and you refuse. Something you are trying to tell you, and you shrug. Someone expresses their point of view and you argue. Someone does in their own way, and you guide him on the right path. You offer a solution, and you mind. You expect one thing and get one and expressed dissatisfaction. Someone stopping you, and you become angry. Change tactics: move the center of gravity from control to observation. It is not necessary to beat the water with his hands. Do not interfere with your life move along, and you will see how you become easier.
INTERPRETATION
The human mind works like a computer, he tries to calculate all the moves in advance and make your plan of action. The mind is rarely possible to find an optimal solution, because the problem is too many unknowns, besides the situation is constantly changing. But he stubbornly insist on his scenario, in other words - rowing against the current. The result is needlessly lost a lot of energy, and the number of problems and obstacles increases. The mind tends to not control their movement over, and over. This is one of the main causes of problems and troubles. Strive more to observe than to control. Do not rush to argue, to argue, to prove, to control, to criticize. Give a chance to the situation to be resolved without your active intervention or resistance. Abandoning control, you get even more control over the situation than it had before. The only control, which should be paid attention to is the control over the level of importance. The greater the importance to get something or to achieve something, the less likely you are to get it. When inflated the importance of things always creates excess capacity, this is where the equilibrium of force aimed at its elimination. The more you want, the less likely you are to get what you want. Everything strives for balance.
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