Question
But forgiveness is so hard! The man raped not only my body but my spirit as well.
Answer
Yes, forgiven the sex offender can be very difficult, not just for the victim but also for the loved ones. But it is still expected that you forgive and remember that you are not alone you have your loved ones and the god factor with you start by forcing yourself to say I will try to forgive him.
Forgiveness does not mean you should go back to the person or allow the person come back into your life. It does not mean you should allow him or her to abuse or misuse again. Forgiveness is simply making peace with your heart. Its freeze your heart and make you feel loved and love everyone.
Question
How can I marry someone that I know has been raped?
Answer
Why can't you marry her? It is not as if she cheated on you with the rapist. To be honest, where is terrible but true love transcend it all.
For love is patient, kind. It does not envy or boast it is not proud it is not good it seeks for the best, and makes one happy. Its forgive the wrong, and no record of the wrong. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hope, always preserves, never love to feel.