Most single people ask me why happily married people don’t flaunt their happiness so people see that happily married couples exist? Rather, people who are most outspoken are the people who have been traumatised by marriage?💔
Simple answer is that society is so broken that when you tell people how happy you are, they go out of their way to discredit what you have.
When you tell people your husband doesn’t cheat, they say “That’s what we all thought… you just haven’t caught him yet”💔
You go on to try convince them that “we even share phones “ and they’ll tell you how some woman thought that too only to find out that the husband had a 2nd secret phone.
As a married person, you’ll leave that conversation feeling insecure, victimised and paranoid.🤦🏽♀️
So, keeping your happiness to yourself is just easier.
However, happy marriages really do exist. You can grow in a marriage and blossom into something you wouldn’t have been by yourself🥹🥰
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