Hi friends,
In my last blog I wrote about the upper part of reason for making relationships. In this blog i want to cover the lower part of reason for making relationships.
Few days ago I was talking to a lady and in our talks she said something which makes forced me to think all night. She said that I make relationship with people because I know if something happen to me these people will be their to help my husband and in the times of need you only your relative will help and of course I need someone to talk. Next day I was listening a lecture of one saint in which he said in the times of need money will not come to wipe your tears only relationship will work.
Now I want to say that the lady and the saint are right but the reason they gave for making relation is not right let me explain you why and how. That lady said that I make relationship with people because I know if something......., So her reason for making a relationship with other is her husband now I want to know that If In future they take divorce from each other then there will be no reason for her relationship, so will she continue her relationship with them ? She also said that she needs someone to talk If in future she is unable to speak due to medical reason for some time, will she continue her relationship with them ?The saint also said the right words but it means again we are making relationship because of our own sake, In the times of need they will come and wipe our tears instead of this we should think that someone need us in their times of need and we will be their to cheer them, then only we make the real meaningful relationship. It is most amazing if we help someone, be with someone even if we don't have any so called relationship with them because even if someone is not your relative like parents, siblings, friends and life partner you still have the most beautiful relationship them and the name such relationship is HUMANITY. When someone is born first he or she is human being then a girl or a boy then he is child of someone, then he is sibling. Even though someone has no parents unfortunately , no sibling he is still a human being. So Humanity comes first. Don't make relations for a reason because whatever you give it comes back to you and then people will also make relationship with you because of some reason.I have one question If you are mother or a father of a son who is 20 years of old and after some time you came to know that he is not your real son because when your child was born Doctor kept him in nursery for 4 days and your son was exchange with some other child because of the hospital mistake, Don't you still love him? or you will say now I don't love because you are not my son, I loved you because of mistake. What you will do in that situation. The answer is you will still love him ask yourself why .