Achievers Wisdom #050: What World Do Your Friend Represent In Your Life?

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” – Anais Nin

If you don’t know before, you need them to make your world. Every soul you meet, bring to your life knowledge, experience, events etc that makes up your world. Just the same way, you make up someone’s world. If you want the best world, remember to be the best in other’s world too. How do you treat your relationship? Leo F. Buscaglia believe “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself, to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.”

If you care to have the best life, you can’t shy away from carefully selecting the people you want in your life. To me, I believe “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out” as thought by Walter Winchell. You might have experienced just like me that, many of them came into your life because of what they want from you. And immediately they get or unable to get it, they move on. All the same, it will be part of the experience required to shape who you are. As much as you expect the best from people in your world, the only way to help them is to be aware that, “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” - Donald Miller

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According to Joyce Meyer “We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics.” Be the one people are expecting to walk in when they need someone to talk to rather than otherwise. “Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care” - Theodore Roosevelt. The great American writer and lecturer, Dale Carnegie declared “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”

Your relationship will be part of your dream come true. Take very good care of it

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